Why are you still not married? This is a social problem, but also a life problem. How many reasons are there for people who do not get married? Today we will use the Japanese drama "Not Married" to find the answer together.
This drama is a double heroine setting, 34-year-old Xiaochun and 44-year-old Dachun are both unmarried.
Xiaochun is a contract worker in a travel agency. He has separated from her boyfriend for five years and is in a situation of being urged to marry by family and colleagues. Xiaochun does not exclude marriage, she just doesn't want to get married, she always meets the talents she loves to enter marriage. On this day, Xiaochun’s life suffered a violent blow. His ex-boyfriend, who had not seen him in five years, walked into the travel agency with his fiancee. It happened that Xiaochun was doing their wedding travel route for them. When Xiaochun, who was in her throat, came home, she overheard her sister's complaint that she would keep occupying the room at home if she refused to marry. But fortunately, Xiaochun met college classmates, and they agreed to get married if they were 35 years old and still single. Xiaochun started dating with his college classmates with expectation, but he did not expect his classmates to tell her straightforwardly that his ideal of marriage is to have several children. Xiaochun's 35-year-old is too late to realize this ideal, so he must marry a young girl. Xiaochun feels lost, buying drunk alone.
Dachun is an independent female personage. He has the idea of not getting married. He has worked as a senior designer in a large company and has operated many well-known architectural design projects, which is very recognized in the company. She promised her future to work. As long as she paid, she would gain. Work will never betray her, so work is the best companion. But I didn't expect that with the approaching age of 45, work would no longer be reliable. The boss decided to send her to a poorly-operated flower shop as the store manager. She became an abandoned son in the workplace when she saw it, and there was no chance of a comeback.
Seeing this, I deeply feel the same. In fact, not only in Japan, but in the whole society, age seems to be a curse hanging on people's heads. Anyone who has not gotten married before the age of 35 will have no time to have children, and anyone who has not been promoted to management at the age of 35 will be eliminated. Under such public opinion guidance, many people have chosen to compromise, get married in a hurry, buy a house in a hurry, have children in a hurry, This life.
This society deprives people of the right to wait. It fabricated an inexplicable sense of anxiety, as if not acting at a certain age, and losing more opportunities every day thereafter.
Married or not, life must continue. With love and passion, you can already make life easier. At the end of this episode, Dachun bravely faced adversity and walked into the fountain and shouted, what’s wrong with not getting married?
Anyway, why are you still not married? Let's discuss together!
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