I planned a romantic wedding in order to marry my lover, and also told my husband about divorce. My husband is done, but my lover said he has a family and children, which made me feel extremely ashamed...
I am 33 years old and I am the company's accounting supervisor. My husband is 36 years old this year, an executive of a foreign trade company, with an annual income of 600,000.
After graduating from a key university, I joined an accountant in a large company, and two years later I married my current high-quality husband. He treats me very well, he is willing to let me in everything, and treat me like a baby.
But, he was too honest and didn't understand romance at all, and he quickly lost my passion for love.
Once I was running late and hurriedly ran into the elevator and ran into a tall man. It turns out that he is the sales director of our company, and I rushed into his arms like a little girl, with a feeling of love every day.
A month later, the two of us became lovers of each other, and we enjoyed this feeling of love. Every time I was with him, he would say a lot of romantic love words.
One year later, I plan to marry my husband and plan a romantic wedding. However, he suddenly changed his mind, saying that he has a wife and children, and he cannot do without them.
I felt ashamed by him and suddenly woke up. Fortunately, my husband understood me and chose to forgive me. I still have a husband to support me. However, the feelings between my husband and I can never go back to the beginning. The feeling my husband
gives me now is that he treats me like a thief at home! After seeing
, netizens talked about it:
has more than one way to choose! You should bear the consequences for your choice. Clothes can be repaired if they are torn... but if you are heartbroken or dead, it is irreparable. What's more, your choice will be an eternal hurdle in your heart, so you can think about it in another way. May you be happy for the rest of your life.
I decide as a man; this marriage is divorced, and there is no room for reversal, because the fate is over! The woman should be more open. Don’t think it’s wrong if you hit the south wall. You should pursue what you want, but don’t hurt a man who loved you again.
divorce is most suitable. If we are together like this, there is no happiness at all. The man doesn't care on the surface, his heart has fallen to the bottom. Sooner or later he will find a new love. The woman is already discouraged and will continue to look for the target. Long-term pain is worse than short-term pain. Z1z
Qing said:
said that no matter whether men or women cheat, you can’t blame the cheaters. The other half also has a certain degree of responsibility. It sounds reasonable, but it is wrong. It's not your derailment but the other party's fault. It's that you are unclean and self-love, cannot withstand the temptation, cannot help being lonely, and have too much desire for comparison and greed. Since the other half can't satisfy you, why don't you leave and cheat? This is an excuse to cover up the cheating.
derails, can not solve the substantive problem
Why does extramarital affairs make many people rush? Z1z
Extramarital affairs are exciting, but once the extramarital affairs become marriage, the original passion will be a little flat. Some women have been complaining about why they can't meet a good man. The key is what is your standard for a good man. There is no perfect man in this world. The key is whether you are a good woman. Maybe you have a good husband. You don’t know how to cherish. You always think that your lover is a good one, and when you are hurt by your lover, your good husband has become a good husband for other women.
Love is love, marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt. Many women, including men, feel that their lover is better than their spouse. That's because they only participate in your wind and snow, and stay away from your chai, rice, oil and salt. Once you really get together, you will still face the firewood, rice, oil and salt, or return to the original point. All that is left are chicken feathers and all people who are everywhere.
In a good marriage, husband and wife know how to give in, because the family never makes sense and only talks about love.
A good marriage can be shared between husband and wife, because one person is not a family, but two people are.
In a good marriage, husbands and wives work together. Only by making progress together can they become ideal partners for each other bit by bit.
Life should be plain and plain. Only when you experience life with your heart and feel your lover's love with your heart, will you feel that love, and you will find that what you have is true happiness, and this happiness is eternal!
breaks the taboo, if it is not done for a compelling reason, it is wickedness. Those who lack virtue will get a kind of pleasure from breaking taboos that they can't get when following axioms and good customs. This kind of pleasure is an irresistible temptation for such people. At the same time, virtue is also the most difficult thing in the world to replenish-more difficult than nourishing the kidney. Therefore, it is difficult for such people to have the subjective conditions to resist temptation, so they will inevitably try to break the taboo to obtain the pleasure of this obsession. Z1z
In layman's terms, marriage is actually a dish, even if it is plain and tasteless, ordinary people are eager for each other without complaint. If a woman takes this dish out to let passersby taste it, and then takes it back and asks her husband to eat it slowly, it is tantamount to sprinkling salt with chili powder on the heart-wrenching wound. Maybe he will choose to forbear for a while for his children, but in the future, he will basically look down on you and despise your soul. All your actions are hypocritical. In his eyes, you have become a poor bug.
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