I am financially independent and work hard to make money and spend myself, but I am sympathized by the woman who is raised by a man!

I am financially independent and work hard to make money and spend my own money, but I am sympathized by the woman who is raised by a man!

Zhang Feng's story

Zhang Feng is a full-time mother. In her words, her husband is responsible for making money and supporting the family. She is responsible for being beautiful and beautiful.

When the child was young, she took the child at home during the day and was responsible for the family’s three meals a day. When my husband comes back in the evening, he will help her bring the children together and let her go to rest. My husband will take them on a self-driving tour on weekends.

may be because they did not buy a house, they have been running out of food.

A few years later, when the child was older, Zhang Feng was not in a hurry to find a job. She said that this kind of life is good, who told her to be lucky and have a daughter, so she won’t have to buy a house or a car in the future, and a son-in-law will come to be filial she was.

Her friends persuaded her that when the child is older, go find a job and try to buy a nest of her own, even if it is a house of 40 or 50 square meters, it is said that there is a house. When

was young, it was okay. When you get older, the house will not be easy to rent. When the time comes, the man will marry a wife, and he will pay attention to the right family. If the woman’s family is too poor, she may not be rejected by the man’s family.

Zhang Feng smiled contemptuously, you are envious and jealous of me, I rely on my husband to support me, the wind can not blow, the rain can not get, don’t have to breathe, send your child every day, sleep when you want to sleep, and play on your phone Cell phone.

is you instead. You go to squeeze the subway at 7 o'clock every day and earn thousands of dollars a month in salary. What's the point?

really sympathizes with you, no man wants to make money for you.

(Zhang Feng is a pseudonym)

reserved and said

In fact, women's financial independence is really important. Let's briefly analyze how high the risk of relying on a husband to support.

What should I do if my husband is unemployed and the family has no income all at once!

What should I do if my husband has an affair and has no skills after divorce?

A man has been carrying heavy loads for a long time. Who can guarantee that he will always be willing?

I think if it is forced by the situation, the man is responsible for supporting the family and the woman is responsible for keeping the house organized, which is really good.

Children are in elementary school, and most children can go home by themselves. If at this time they are still unwilling to fight side by side with their husbands, the family pressure is on the men, which really shouldn't.

But as Zhang Feng said, people have their own ambitions, and it is not suitable for outsiders to say more, each has its own happiness, and don't easily disturb the happiness of others.

Finally, I want to say one more thing. If the child is old and still unwilling to work, he knows the risk.

may be happy for a lifetime, or the kingdom of happiness may collapse in an instant.

Economically independent women are the most beautiful!