Text|Ashapu Emotional Story
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Illustration: Stills of "All Quite Good"
There have always been eccentric parents, and it is difficult to change their parents’ conception of which children they want to treat and who Unable to stop.
is like Su Daqiang in the TV series "Everything is Good", he just wants to be partial to his son, even if his son is not up to date, he is happy. No matter how good his daughter is to him, she will only think it should be right.
In the recent hit TV series "The Centimeter of Love", Guan Yongnian is the same. His son only knows to nibble the old and the elder sister, and he still only treasures his own son. When his son got sick and was hospitalized, his daughter was watching and taking care of him day and night, but he felt that it was his daughter's duty. It is really difficult for
to be children with such eccentric parents, but no matter how great the suffering and grievance are, I can only endure it silently. If I argue with my parents, I will only end up with an unfilial reputation.
Parents have the stubbornness and difficulties of their parents, and their children will also have the hardships and grievances of their children, but in the final analysis they are all a family, even if it is unfair, they still have to bear it.
reader Xiaojin is 27 years old this year, but she is not married yet and is still single. Even if the friends around you are not married, at least they have a marriage partner, and only Xiaojin will always be alone.
She works outside alone and takes care of herself alone. In fact, her life is very difficult. Her salary is not high, but she usually pays her family. She has been working for two years, but she has no savings at all. .
has a habit in her hometown, that is, before her daughter gets married, her monthly salary must be kept by her mother. It is said that the family helps the daughter save it first, and when they get married, they will be used as a dowry and then given to the daughter.
But in fact, no matter how much money was paid to the family before the daughter got married, it didn't matter in the end, basically it was spent on the family. Xiaojin said that when some friends in her hometown got married, her family didn't give her daughter the money she had handed back.
Xiaojin knows that she is no exception like everyone else. Every penny she earns now is to raise her family, including her brothers and sisters.
Xiaojin has three siblings, with an older brother on top and a younger sister on the bottom. She is the least popular second child in the family. The elder brother is married and married. Although the conditions are not good, both the elder brother and the sister-in-law are more capable people.
Xiaojin also has a younger sister who is now in school. Every month, Xiaojin’s mother pays the money she earns to her younger sister. Even so, both parents, brothers and sisters thought that Xiaojin gave the family money as it should, and did not appreciate her.
In Xiaojin's life, there is no other extra thing to spend money, her life is currently working hard to help her parents support the family.
Xiaojin said that her parents asked her to give the money to her family. She was acceptable because she grew up in such an environment and was so touched by her ears. She didn't think it was unreasonable to give her salary to her family. . Even if
provides for her sister’s schooling and living expenses, Xiaojin does not feel that she is at a disadvantage. She has always felt that it is her responsibility to reduce the financial pressure on her parents.
Xiaojin himself is also a person who pays much attention to family love. He always said that when he was a child, his family was poor and now he has some ability to take care of his family.
However, she is now gradually realizing that she should no longer help the family blindly and not think about herself. The habit of her hometown may be that the family doesn't speak two things, but the other people she meets outside are different from her three views.
She once talked with two boyfriends. The other party broke up with her because she paid her income to the house. Most men worry that after marrying a girl like Xiaojin, they will have to support her family.
Even though Xiaojin had given all her money to her parents, her mother always guarded her and did not completely believe her. Xiao Jin said that her mother often said on the phone that Xiao Jin must have money in her hands.
In fact, this is not the case at all. Xiaojin pays 8,000 yuan a month, 5,000 for his family, and 2,000 for himself. This is not too much. She works and lives in the city, and the rent is 800 a month. In her life, she tries to buy vegetables and cooks by herself, but she also spends about 600. The few hundred dollars left to buy some daily necessities occasionally cannot save a small vault.
But Xiaojin's mother didn't believe her, she always felt that she had a lot of money in her hands. After Xiaojin graduated and started working for the past two years, in addition to the monthly salary paid back on time, her mother would ask her for 200 yuan from time to time, saying that it was a red envelope for her grandson, that is, to her brother Xiaojin's son.
Xiaojin said that she looked at her own transfer records and gave her mother the 200 yuan each year, a total of 100 times. This situation has been going on for two years. The account of
is dare not to be calculated. If it is calculated in this way, there will be 40,000 yuan in two years. If the 40,000 yuan is saved, it will be the money that Xiaojin saved himself. Unfortunately, even a little pocket money will be charged. Mother searched away. One of the boyfriends Xiaojin talked with before was that after the two talked for a while and learned about her situation, they said directly that if she kept helping her family in this way, no one would dare to marry her in the future.
At that time, Xiaojin felt that her ex-boyfriend had said too much. From now on, she also feels that her parents are treating her too badly, and may never think about her.
Although there is a saying in her hometown to give her parents money, her friends are still loved by her family, and Xiaojin's parents never asked her whether she was working outside alone, did she take care of herself, nor urged her to hurry. marry.
Most of her mother calls just to ask her for money. Xiaojin is very distressed for her eccentric parents, but for her, even if eccentricity is not good for her, it is the parents who gave birth to her. She still said that she must be filial to her parents.
Therefore, I can only indulge blindly, and the result is a phenomenon that is difficult to reverse now. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, and she doesn't have any money in her hands. She is lonely and sick without anyone taking care of her.
In our lives, there are many situations like Little Golden Girl. In the final analysis, the parents are partial. If you don't like any child, you will find it easy for the child to make money and treat them harshly.
Moreover, when you ask for money, you still dare not refuse to give it. Otherwise, parents will use this to say that this child is not filial. Faced with the parents who raised them, children who have a little conscience don’t count too much, as long as they are able to Within the scope, money is generally given.
However, we still have to remind eccentric parents that their children are their own, and the palms and backs of the hands are all fleshy. Don't let yourself be confused for a while, hurt your relationship with a certain child, and don't delay your children because of your selfishness. marriage. The picture of
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