took off, do you often encounter such troubles:
finally muster up the courage, after confessing to the person you like, the other party will pretend to be stupid. Chong Leng
will either change the subject with a smile, or reply with a face-covering expression, or even be more embarrassed and even politely refused to say "You will meet a better person".
Just when you think that the budding of love is being stifled, boys will frequently like your circle of friends, often take the initiative to chat with you, and take you to meet some of his friends. This series of contrasting behaviors will make many girls confused, and they don't like it, why do they always feel like they are in love?
Faced with such a boy, if it were you, what would you do? Those girls with higher EQ are often able to effectively identify and judge the boy’s true intentions. Whether they stay or leave, they are the ones who dominate the relationship and are less likely to be hurt.
However, most girls will wander in the love network woven by men, paying more and more sunk costs between letting go and not letting go, and eventually turning themselves into a low-value passive woman.
In today's class, we will analyze the psychology of boys and help everyone grasp the most accurate direction at the crossroads of emotions.
The first situation is feelings. In a word,
is: above friends, lovers are not full. We have said more than once in public classes that men are rational animals and have a scale in their hearts. They will give a comprehensive evaluation score for each other's appearance, body, personality, family background, etc., to locate each other's position.
Maybe your score in his mind is 5, but his requirement of girlfriend is above 7. At this time, you have become an emotional chicken rib. To be a girlfriend, he feels almost meaningless; to be a friend Now, seeing the cooked duck flying.
himself does not have a woman at the moment. In this case, a man usually pretends to be dumb, and his ambiguity with you develops naturally. If his ideal goal appears behind him, he will abandon you; if not , You can also treat him.
Doesn’t it feel angry? You have become a spare tire to fill his emotional window.
But feelings are like this. You have the right to decide whether to chase him, and he also has the right to choose you.
Actually, it's very fortunate to be able to find someone you love, who happens to have the ability to love him. It's just that you still need to work harder away from your goal. Your goal is to increase your attractiveness, reach his expectations of his girlfriend, and guide him to pursue you.
Remember, here is for him to chase you. Only in this way can the long-term relationship be guaranteed. As for how to do it, we have said many times, just to enlarge your own attraction to him, learn from each other's strengths, and improve your score.
The second situation is that he deliberately hangs you. Men like
generally have a higher EQ. Although he shows an indifferent mentality, in fact he has already acquiesced in his heart that you are his girlfriend, and the reason why he did this is nothing more than to improve Own value.
And in the relationship, the person with high sense of value often controls the direction of love.
's ambiguous behavior will lead you to think constantly,
"does he like me or not", "why does he not like me so passionate about me", "is it possible that I can catch him if I work harder" etc. Wait.
When you think about what this man means, you have already lost in this emotional game.
Accompanied by men teasing you from time to time, your emotional cost is increasing, and you are strengthening your liking for him every day, until you become his possession.
At this time, if this man is just a good man with high emotional intelligence, then you may lose only the high cost of pursuing you that you should have, and the initiative in love; but if this man is a trained man Pua veteran, then you will eventually become his gunmate and his emotional slave, because you are just a short-term target in his long-term pursuit of beauty.
is certain that no matter what the result is, you will be thatThe injured woman.
Because in the whole process, you are the passive, low-value woman. In this case, you are sure of the relationship. How much do you expect him to love you?
You can imagine, would you be reluctant to eat a bun you bought on the street? The truth is the same, he will not cherish a girlfriend who has never paid.
So, if the other party is really hanging you, either leave him quickly, or reverse his status and enjoy the right to be pursued that girls should enjoy.
Remember that women being chased is the natural law of human courtship. We must not break this law!
Because not every man regards protecting women as his mission, unless it is the woman he loves.
Men are prone to polygamy, either get him or stay away from him. Don't become an unloved dog in your relationship!
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