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no matter how the statement changes, its essence is still a consistent emotional PUA, that is, using certain "talk" and "techniques" to deceive the opposite sex and squeeze the value of the other party.
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claims to be the original "36 tricks for ecstasy", and the teacher specializes in "finishing gold" and "ecstasy". A certain "love college" has recently become popular online.
The "academy" claims to provide emotional education consulting. The company's business includes services such as love restoration, marriage restoration, separation of primary three, maintenance of long-term relationships, and resolution of conflicts and crises. The company includes many "mentors" in the field of marriage and love, and one of them, Bo Bo, even declared that "I was able to guide suitors to give more than 500,000 jewelry when I was in college."
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network "emotion experts" emerge in endlessly, this "love college" has once again refreshed people's cognition. Clearly using "fishing for gold" and "ecstasy" as a bright spot for propaganda, doesn't this mean admitting that you are cultivating "fishing for women" and preaching money worship? From a social perspective, this kind of propaganda violates public order and good customs; from a personal perspective, values are not known where they are crooked.
's past "emotional mentors" Ayawawa and others also advocated that women should find ways to attract men, but the expression has not been so explicit. This "academy" directly claimed that its "mentor" was a "top gold-fishing master" and "a master of fox spirit development". It simply couldn't wait to announce that it had worshipped money and violated public morals, which once again refreshed the bottom line. However, no matter how the argument changes, its essence is still a consistent emotional PUA, that is, using a certain "speech" and "technique" to deceive the opposite sex and squeeze the value of the other party.
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mostly refers to the control of men against women. This "love college" does the opposite, and "educates" women how to manipulate Men, so some people call it "reverse PUA". Judging from the numerous fans of the "emotional leader" Ayawawa back then, these words do indeed have a market. Some people who are trapped by love and helpless, or who are trying to "fly on the branches and become phoenixes" through love and marriage, are easily attracted by these rhetoric. This is also the soil where such "academies" and "mentors" can survive.
However, trying to do evil to others, in the end often backlash. Love, marriage, this kind of intimate relationship, can never succeed by deception. Rushing for money to "snap up guys", rushing for control to "sell girls", using how much money you get as a criterion for the success of a love relationship, which materializes the other party and yourself, is a common humiliation to both parties.
Besides, since you are not really in love, aren't you afraid that the other person will "make routine" yourself with the same mentality? Previously, the media had reported how some people "decorated" the circle of friends, and only a few yuan can buy a complete set of "decoration templates" for the circle of friends online. Most of these templates contain exquisite pictures or videos, showing the owner's mansion or luxury life scenes, creating a "high, rich and handsome" personality. Not long ago, when the "Fighting Single Ladies Group" swept the screen, some women also used false methods to create their own "Ladies" image. Since both parties take money as their love goal, the chances of "attracting" each other are very high. Imagine what kind of embarrassing scene is when a "handsome guy" in a "fine decoration" circle of friends meets a "single lady" or a "glorious girl"?
There are indeed some ways to get along with people. But all methods should be based on sincere emotion, otherwise it is deception. A course like a certain "academy" that promotes "salvage for gold" not only violates ethics, it is also likely to involve fraud and other illegal activities in actual operations. At that time, these women who dream of "breaking into the upper class" may also To fall into prison. On the surface,
looks like a shortcut to "fishing for gold", but in fact it is a trap covered with flowers. This emotional PUA that hurts others and oneself, when will it become popular? Both men and women should recognize this fact as soon as possible—there are not so many shortcuts in this world. Treating others sincerely and working hard is the kingly way.
(article source: Guangming Net Times Review Channel)
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