can change a person more or less whether it is in love or marriage. The most obvious change is that men suddenly become conservative.
"The collar is so low that you can see everything!" Once they have an object, they begin to become extremely sensitive, for fear that their little fairy will be "focused" on by other men.
They can't control the eyes of everyone around them, so they can only control their daughter-in-law's clothes, look at her as much as possible, let the other party abandon fashionable clothes, or simply wrap up like a zongzi.
For girls, this is a sweet burden, and they lose the "freedom of dressing" invisibly. Before marrying
01, Xi Mengyao was an international supermodel. Her clothes on the T stage were mainly sexy, and her graceful figure made both boys and girls excited.
In short, you can wear anything you want, but when you appear on the spot, you are a walking fashion star. Who knows, even skinny jeans are banned after marriage.
In "The Happiness Trio", He Youjun was ridiculed as soon as he spoke. It turned out that the daughter-in-law of the rich family could not escape being interfered in dressing. "You can clearly see the shape of your buttocks." He Youjun suggested changing to a pair of pants. After the wedding, Xi Mengyao's dress became loose.
In our opinion, leggings have been relatively conservative to wear, but boys after marriage seem to become extremely sensitive. There are different attitudes towards this change.
02 Xiao Yuer personally believes that this desire for control of boys originates from the inherent cognition in the bottom of my heart: is generally not a good girl when dressed in revealing clothes, and serious girls do not wear hot pants to go out (fatal sentence). These cognitions of
can be extended to many places. For example, girls who smoke and dye their hair at are not simple at first sight. I believe everyone has a deep understanding of . For example, Huang Duoduo dyed her hair and pierced her ears, which attracted many questions at the beginning.
last year’s "Wonderful Flower Talk" program also had a debate about "boys let girlfriends wear hot pants". Both sides especially insist on their opinions. There are 10,000 reasons for boys to keep girls conservative, but girls always think "I'm right."
Because in the eyes of girls, I put on makeup and beautiful clothes just to please myself. If I go out every day and cannot follow my own wishes, I will feel strange all day long. Even, dare not look at others. Once
is stopped, the simple girls will say: "Why are your thoughts so complicated?"
What's more, in the eyes of girls, if others have evil thoughts, it is their problem, it is those boys' thoughts. Dirty, what did you do wrong?
can understand that boys become distracted because of girls' clothes. After all, it really cares. If you treat it as a treasure, you will be afraid of being seen by others.
Because when the boys are alone, they still can't help but take a peek at the beauties on the side of the road, and even comment on each other's body with their buddies.
But for my own wife, I can’t wait for the simpler the better, and the tighter the package, the better.
03 But I personally feel that instead of blindly interfering, or even annoying the other party, it is better to protect it. For example, if you can't stop girls from wearing short skirts, try to protect them from the back when you walk up the stairs to give both parties a sense of security.
borrowed a sentence used by the Shenzhen police in combating subway indecent incidents: "You can wear the nice little skirts in the world, and we will catch them."
Every girl also hopes her boyfriend will tell her, you can wear nice pants. , Your world, I will protect. Instead of taking care of everything, he finally started to dislike his girlfriend not being able to dress up.
In short, boys don’t need to be too sensitive when it comes to dressing. Girls can also adjust their own style appropriately instead of deliberately swaying.