Many times, because of conflicts with the person they like, the two people have a cold war with each other, and it is possible that a love will end.
Going back to a love is very simple, three steps.
1. Look at the problem as simple
Sometimes a very simple thing can be complicated. It is necessary to make it a way of thinking and a way to solve problems.
If one's own subjective consciousness complicates things on the one hand, and imposes complex thinking on oneself, the original emotional problem will be complicated.
learn to look at the problem simple. For example, if a woman's sentence "what do you mean" is supplemented by the brain as "what do you mean by me, then what do you mean", this is not complicated. The correct idea of
is: What do you mean by me? This is to take a step back and broaden the sky. If you think too much that the other party is faulty, then the conflict between the two parties will increase.
2. Learn to talk to each other
When you meet someone you like, you always want to communicate with each other, but in many cases, you are alone in a solo show. Because you do not have a deep understanding of each other.
is just a unilateral expression of goodwill, so you have to learn to guide the other person to express, so that the interaction is effective.
Understand each other's preferences and exchange their own experiences, so that they can express their true feelings together, so that the distance between the two people will soon be closer.
3. Learn to rely on each other
Many people say that they want to be independent, but after independence, they are unfamiliar, so mutual dependence and a little independence.
is often too independent and neglects the other person's feelings, and often gives up their own feelings because they like to stick to each other.
Relying on each other is the best state of love. You have me in you, I have you in me, I have characteristics, and you have. Two people are attracted to each other.
produces distance independently, and dependence can cause trouble for the other party.
The best love is for two people to be each other's company. Don't restrain, don't entangle, don't possess, don't desire to dig out meaning from the other person, that is something that is destined to fail.
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