Sun Lei remarried when he was 55 and married a woman twenty years younger than him. He gave his newlyweds a very grand wedding. He regards this wedding as more important than anything else. He doesn't care what others say, let alone the accusations of his ex-wife and children. When
was 23 years old, Sun Lei followed his parents' advice and married Li Li. He didn't like Li Li, but his family was poor at that time, and only Li Li, who was poorer than his family, was willing to marry him. If he missed Li Li, no woman would be willing to follow him in the next few years. As soon as he gritted his teeth, Sun Lei got married.
originally didn't like it in his heart. After sleeping on a bed, Sun Lei always listened to Li Li's snoring and looked at Li Li's big buck teeth, he felt upset. But since they are married, they become husband and wife. After living, Li Li didn't hate it so much. After all, apart from the fact that she couldn't look past her, Li Li was a competent woman, who combined all the characteristics of a good woman: hardworking, steady, smart and virtuous. In the fifth year of the marriage of
, with the help of Li Li, Sun Lei's luck improved. From working elsewhere to work in other places and then having my own shop, there is no problem supporting this family.
After another chance, Sun Lei followed his eldest brother to do business, and the quality of life improved. Sun Lei began to feel that life was boring and bored again.
One focused on taking care of the family at home, the other had a long history of playing around, and the gap between the two people began to quarrel endlessly. A trivial matter can make them quarrelsome.
Sun Lei really annoyed his wife Li Li's face, and finally saw that many of his friends around him were second-married. At the age of 50, he resolutely filed for divorce.
Li Li naturally has nothing to say, she is also tired of this kind of life. Whenever she sees her friends being held in the palm of her hand by her husband, and she can’t get her husband’s distress from being a cow or horse, she feels wronged. After so many years, she also understood that Sun Lei was not good to her, and she had already thought of divorce, but she had been enduring it for the children these years, and now that Zhang Lei proposed, she divorced the marriage smoothly. Since Sun Lei proposed it, she would also bring over all of her own property. After the divorce, Sun Lei, who had nothing to worry about, started his second spring. He met Yuan Zhen, a woman twenty years younger than him. Yuan Zhen is tall, fair-skinned, and elegant in her gestures. This woman satisfies all Sun Lei's illusions about his wife.
For Yuan Zhen, Sun Lei is also in line with her requirements for the other half. She was born in the countryside, and she was used to living hard times. She wanted to find a rich husband. Having no father since childhood also made Yuan Zhen easy to rely on and trust in older men. Therefore, since meeting Sun Lei, Yuan Zhen is very satisfied both in terms of financial resources and age. It seems good to marry such a person.
soon fell in love with the two. Yuan Zhen always has many weird little thoughts, which make Sun Lei feel fresh every day, and Sun Lei's delicate care also makes Yuan Zhen feel the happiness of a little woman. After being together for less than a year, the two got a marriage certificate and held a luxurious wedding.
However, the days after marriage are not as happy as Sun Lei imagined. Yuan Zhen has her own selfishness. Seeing that Sun Lei often gave money to him and his ex-wife's children, she felt unwilling. She desperately wanted her child, so she tossed Sun Lei every day to want a child.
At this time, the contradiction between the two people became prominent. Yuan Zhen wanted children because he was afraid that in the future, Sun Lei’s property would be left to him and his ex-wife’s children and would have no share of her own. Sun Lei had no plans to have children at all, although he and Li Li's divorce does not mean that he does not value his children. On the issue of children, Sun Lei has his own principles and will never have children with other women. This is also his bottom line.
Later, after a long time, Sun Lei found that Yuan Zhen always went out for afternoon tea, and once there was no one in sight. And since Yuan Zhen married him to take charge of the family's financial power, Sun Lei has discovered that money is spent like running water. He desperately makes money, and she desperately spends money, falling into an endless loop and getting tired.
waited for him to buy a house for his children, but when he bought a car he found that the family had little money left.
At this time, he realized that Yuan Zhen was doing the tricks. Angrily, Sun Lei filed for divorce again.
totalIn this marriage of my own, I discovered that I wanted to marry Yuan Zhen just because of vanity. Only after you really marry at home will you find out that marrying such a woman is really insignificant. He couldn't even compare to his ex-wife's half-duty work, and he was a ruin. In this marriage, he did not receive the slightest benefit and love, Yuan Zhen only used him as an "cash machine."
Only then did he understand that many times "old couples and young wives" satisfy women, but suffer men.
"Old couples and young wives" is an unusual phenomenon. But why is this kind of marriage difficult to maintain? Because it seems that most of the marriages of "old couples and young wives" are based on money or other interests. Just as Yuan Zhen is willing to marry Sun Lei, a large part of the reason is also because Sun Lei's economic conditions are mature. Compared with her peers, marrying Sun Lei allows her to live more freely and easily. But when she found out that Sun Lei was unwilling to have children with her, she became more selfish, and she felt a little bit unkind. Don't blame me for being unrighteous. The two people caught in this state of marriage are no longer husband and wife, but more like a pair of enemies.
For old couples and young wives, the love of the young side is strong and stimulating; the love of the older side is steady, living within their means. "Old couples and young wives" have always existed: Sun Yat-sen and Soong Ching Ling are 27 years old, Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan are 54 years old, and Chen Kaige and Chen Hong are also 16 years old. Regardless of whether they are married or halfway through, although they are very different in age, hobbies, and lifestyles, they can get along well and have a happy marriage.
Every flower is different, and every love is also different. But the "old and young love" wants to last long and needs to be built on the basis of true love. If you choose this marriage purposefully, then please think twice. An unsatisfactory marriage is a torture for everyone; if you really don’t mind each other’s age, you have a passion for each other and love each other. It means that such a marriage is enviable and admirable, and I wish you happiness in this life.
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