In love, how do we judge whether the other person really loves you, is he loyal to marriage?
Facts I think, love is originally a one-to-one relationship, with great possessiveness and exclusivity. Everyone likes their partner to be loyal and loyal in marriage, but for most of the relationships now, This has almost become a luxury, because people nowadays like to think of love as a quick consumable.
When the other party has some trouble, you will doubt whether the other party is sorry for you, especially for those couples who are imbalanced in their relationship or are in different places. In this kind of lack of basic love, they always worry about loyalty. Days, I think being together like this is too tired.
So today we will talk about how to judge whether the other party is loyal to you
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don’t stick together often, but you are the only one in his heart
Many times, true loyalty is not always sticking together, but in Think of each other as the only one.
In the hearts of most girls, if the other person loves you, you should be tired of being together all day long, but in many cases, reality is not like this. In the hearts of boys, this behavior will become: yes, but not necessary
Most of the time, boys tend to be rational in their thoughts and time. They are very purposeful about when and what to do, and they care about gains and losses.
Of course, if there is a guy who is willing to accompany you for a long time and do things that seem boring, such as being willing to go shopping by you, watching old soap operas and soap operas full of routines, then definitely don’t say he is He really cares about you, he doesn't care what you are doing, what he cares about is the time with you and what he does with you.
Of course, some boys like to show their care for you in other ways.
Just like every girl will have a little princess in his heart, a boy will also have a playful little boy in his heart.
If a boy can’t solve your sadness and unhappiness, they will be unhappy and uncharacteristically.
In fact, if they are with you every day, chat with you every day, and report everything with you, they may not be loyal. .
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for you to stay away from other opposite sex
Everyone will have some friends of the opposite sex, but boys who are in love, often in order to show loyalty, they will deliberately keep a certain distance from the opposite sex, not only in the manner of talking with the opposite sex It will be shown in some other details.
For example: always in the circle of friends, send a photo of your affection
every time he chats with a girl, he will tell you what he talked about
sticking to you in public, will not leave you too far, will not like others in front of you Girls...
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are responsible for love
Many times, boys are not good at and unwilling to show their love for you too explicit, but the details of his love for you cannot be concealed.
may in life, the other party has to work hard to support the family, he can’t take care of you, but he may make up for you in action, for example:
comes back every day and brings you your favorite What you eat, maybe that thing, takes a lot of time to complete for you.
satisfies you for you, and gives up something he likes
his love for you may not be high-profile, even in your opinion he does not love her, but his voluntary performance of the responsibility neither complains nor does Not high-profile, not tired every day, is loyal to you and your relationship.
Love is based on understanding and trust. The most taboo is temptation and suspicion. When there is temptation and suspicion, your relationship is already very bad. Don’t always hold on to some external evidence to verify whether the other person loves you, and don’t Easily doubt the loyalty of the other party. Some girls always suspect that the other party is doing something sorry for her. They keep looking for the other party’s evidence, but finally did not find it. They also left a guard against the other party in their hearts and made the other party feel that you did not. Trust him
You have to know that it is easy to love each other and difficult to stay together, and do it and cherish it