Everyone has their own social circle, and the gender of men and women is never the boundary of social relations. Everyone has a few friends of the opposite sex who have a good relationship. The most important thing in getting along with the opposite sex is to take a sense of measure. You must not cross the bottom line, otherwise it may have a bad influence on your own life and the lives of others.
Especially when you are in love or married, you must not keep a certain distance from the opposite sex, otherwise the occurrence of derailment will often happen in a flash.
No matter how good the relationship is between the opposite sex, you must also pay attention to your sense of measure. If you do this, you will be very close to cheating!
01 often complain about dissatisfaction with the other party about marriage
Lin Ling dreamed that Zhou Xin would confess to herself. She was so scared that she hung up the other party's phone, after all, she was married. Zhou Xin has always known, why suddenly confessed to himself. Lin Ling couldn't help but complain with her best friend. After hearing the whole story, she couldn't help cursing Lin Ling. After the incident, Lin Ling thought about it afterwards, it seemed that this was the case.
Lin Ling and Zhou Xin were ordinary friends at the beginning. Because of their work, the two had more communication. There are also more and more topics of communication between two people. From work communication to life, two people can inevitably talk about short things in their parents.
Lin Ling’s husband has a violent temper and a little bit of masculinity, so when two people are arguing, when they see other people’s marriage, Lin Ling can’t help complaining, so she can’t help but complain to Zhou Xin, but complains about it. Lin Ling feels that marriage has not reached the point of divorce.
Although her husband is not that good, he is good to his parents and children. Sometimes when Lin Ling told Zhou Xin that her husband was wrong, she was just complaining, and then she forgot.
I didn’t expect Zhou Xin to take it seriously and confessed to Lin Ling. Lin Ling knew that the problem was big. She decisively rejected Zhou Xin and reduced her contact with Zhou Xin. After all, she is a wife, so don’t make mistakes. signal of. I hope this episode will not affect my marriage.
02 I often chat late at night, with endless words
When a woman came to the door, Xiaoyu was completely stunned. She did not expect that she would become a contemptuous junior. Although he didn't do anything, Xiaoyu couldn't refute what the other party said.
First of all, Lin Qingzheng chatted with himself, and the two people often talked very late, talking on any topic, as if there was something to say, both of them were reluctant to hang up.
In Xiaoyu's view, Lin Ming is not only his boss, but also his best friend. He can always tell himself some knowledge about life and work, and is a good teacher and helpful friend. But Xiaoyu thinks of Lin Ming's good, but forgets Lin. Ming's other identity, he is a married man and the father of two children.
Since the second child was born this year, Lin Ming lived in the study room, which is the convenience, and chatted with Xiaoyu. Seeing the woman coming, Xiaoyu finally understood where she was wrong. Decided to quit the job the next day.
03 Frequent appointments, watching movies and shopping constantly
Lin Shan just got home, my mother called him into the room and scolded him. It turned out that the neighbor saw Linshan go shopping and went to the movies. This is not the biggest problem. The biggest problem is that the woman Lin Shan is dating is a colleague from his company, not a relative.
Lin Shan feels that two people can talk together, and there is nothing wrong with making appointments. But my mother is in a hurry. You are a married person. Although your wife is studying abroad this year, it is not the reason for your cheating.
Lin Shan feels that he has not cheated, but my mother disagrees. If you don't cheat now, it doesn't mean you won't cheat in the future. The most important thing is that you often make appointments with others, and they may have other ideas! Sure enough, a young colleague from the company suddenly confessed to him, and Lin Shan suddenly realized the seriousness of the problem. It turned out that he gave the other party the wrong signal.
04 I always like to ask for help when encountering things.
Because of her husband's frequent business trips, Zhou Xiao asked her male colleague Xu Ming for help whenever she had something to do. Zhou Xiao didn't think much at first, because Xu Ming was the most enthusiastic in the company, and the two were working partners. After all, it was normal to help each other.
However, Xu Ming's wife didn't think so, so she went directly to Zhou Xiao and asked her to stay away from her husband. Zhou Xiao thought the other party was stingy at first, but Xu Ming’s wife was unexpectedHe said angrily, as long as he sees the WeChat you send now, no matter how late he goes out, he will almost catch up with the meeting when we first fell in love.
Zhou Xiao finally sent away Xu Ming’s wife. Afterwards, Xu Ming explained a lot, and even said bad things about his wife. This made Zhou Xiao realize the seriousness of the problem. It turned out that she used someone else’s husband as her own husband. . She decided to communicate with her husband and ask her to change to a job with less business trips. After all, if there is something to do in the future, especially at home, the husband is most suitable.
Conclusion: For married men and women,
does not necessarily have to be insulated from the opposite sex, but must know how to communicate with the opposite sex. Keep a certain distance, know how to avoid taboos, and maintain a clean relationship with the opposite sex, this is the most basic respect and loyalty to your marriage.
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