Ram once said that he was safe in the divorce certificate: how to identify a woman, and destroy your hostile man if you don’t get

Z0z Ram once introduced himself on a certain music platform: poor family ugly, sixty-five meters, elementary school education, rural household registration. Ram is 30 years old this year, but he has a pair of extremely rough hands. The index and middle fingers are black, which are traces of digging medicine all the time.

This looking sunny and beautiful woman, this woman who never accepts gifts and rewards from fans

You will never think of her life experience: domestic violence, threats by ex-husband, divorce because of her limited financial ability, children are sentenced To ex-husband! He didn't agree with the remarriage, his ex-husband Tang threatened to kill her family

Ram thought he was safe when he got the divorce certificate

Ram thought he was safe when he got the divorce certificate. Little did she know that her ex-husband, Tang, not only did not repent a little about her ex-wife's domestic violence, but because Ram divorced him, she became even more angry with Ram. The short videos of Ram in the eyes of

in Tang's eyes, those sunny and beautiful life, are thorns in his heart. Even if she was violent to Ram, she shouldn't betray her, she shouldn't show herself. Ram shouldn’t have a good life, she should become her own “slave”

There is a kind of man who will destroy you if you can’t get it

At that time, Ram didn't know that the man beside her was the devil, she thought she had found love.

As Ram spent more time with Tang, she found out that the man she married was worthless and jealous of women. He worked as an old man at home, and her in-laws were not good at disciplining her sons. At the core, she was abused by Tang at home all year long, in order not to let her Her family was threatened by her ex-husband, and she has been patient.

The kind-hearted Ram originally thought that if she and Tang had children, each other would become a responsible man. This is completely wishful thinking of Ram.

For a violent, black belly, keen on hitting women, and a giant baby boy spoiled by the family, he has a child in his heart. How can he love his child? The violence stems from Ram swallowing his breath and not daring to resist. At the core, he can say that Ram’s family has no one, and his father is seriously ill in bed. He is financially capable. Ram can’t do without himself

. These years Ram has been relying on his own efforts to give his children a better life, Tang Mou Lahm's gnawing old, unlearned, and all kinds of domestic violence have only brought endless harm to Lahm. Ram has been waiting for his ex-husband to get better. As a result, his ex-husband is jealous of the high popularity of the videos she spread, and the beauty of her sunshine.

Originally, his ex-husband only wanted to disfigure Ram, but didn't want to burn Ram to death. Faced with a man who would destroy him if he didn't get it, it would be useless for a woman to forbear. Ram's biggest weakness was held tightly by Tang. Because Ram is a very responsible woman, she can't just leave and watch Tang go to poison her family and her children.

Do you know how vicious Tang is?

After the divorce, Ram took turns to live with relatives. Tang couldn’t find her and texted her every day, “If you don’t come back, I will kill the child!”

He found a specialty shop opened by Ram’s friend Zhuoma The dignitaries forced her to call Ram, but Zhuo Ma refused. Tang smashed Zhuo Ma's face with a certain fist. Until now, a dent can be seen under Zhuo Ma's eyes.

Many people say: Why doesn’t Ram go far away from the violent man Tang?

Ram can go far away, but the reality is that she can't. When Ram left, almost all the people around her were victimized. Knowing why outsiders dare not care about husbands and wives. Tomorrow and accidents that you really don’t know, the first to come

For the extreme, hostile, and very controlling man, If you broke up with him and divorced, you would humiliate him, or he would fail in life. A man who has failed in his life is not only a domestic violence woman, but also will not treat his children. In their eyes, others are sorry for themselves, and they are the most pitiful and innocent.

Tang is not only a man spoiled by his parents, but also a selfish man who only has himself in the eyes. Just such a scumbag. Ram got married when she was very young. She didn't even know that the man she loved was such a thing

. So how can women avoid encountering junk boys?

1, your outlook on life, world outlook, love, marriage before the age of 25The concept of marriage has not been formed. Don't rush to get married early, don't worry about getting married, don't feel that it is a shame for a woman not to marry at an old age. Women who don't want to get married have the ability, confidence, and financial strength not to get married, because marriage is an economic account.

You think you are not good at mixing, you can live a good life if you find a man to fight together. Maybe a man can’t control his own life. How can he fight with you

2. Don’t love more than the sky, be rational and wise

in our lives In, women often meet the kind of extreme, selfish and selfish men who like to suppress you and control you. These men are extremely cruel. They only use women. There is no such thing as emotion. Women must be vigilant!

Many men are keen to suppress women to find their own presence, and they themselves are dark and gloomy and not confident. At the core, this kind of man is selfish and good at calculation.

If your boyfriend or husband often says that you are not good, it is not good, you can't see your excellence, or you laugh and jealously for your efforts, please be careful.

Because this kind of man itself can't see you better than him, and he will humiliate you even harder when you are excellent. Do you think that it is your excellence that makes him lack manly, and then you put the blame on yourself, and men will love you?

is wrong, they will use your so-called excellence to suppress their self-confident inferiority complex, and constantly exploit you to calculate you. Maybe some men deliberately get ambiguous with other men, cheating and humiliating you, and then they say you are too strong, making me feel sorry for myself

3, always say: it’s all your fault man

some men like to throw their mistakes on Woman, then let the woman and the woman tear each other. For a cheating man, as long as the responsibility is left to his wife. After they have derailed themselves, they will shamelessly humiliate you, saying that you are not gentle, you are not virtuous, and that you are all bad and forced him to derail. To put it bluntly, a man cheating is because he can't control his desires and has nothing to do with his wife.

Men who say they know their wives on blind date and have no relationship with their wives use their wives as fertility tools, and their children are also favored by gender, and they have love and respect for women. Only a woman would regard the small three and small four as a thorn in the eye, knowing that there are countless times when a man derails, she must be morally kidnapped.

What do you shamelessly seduce my man? Many married men still need to be seduce. They are all male dogs in estrus. Whoever says a few words to him will feel that he loves himself in many ways. I really don't know the confidence from this kind of scumbag. Besides, women will forgive cheating men. For their own children,

are more likely to forgive men than women who are cheated by men. Therefore, men cheating is unscrupulous. The more children a woman has, the more passive her life will be.

When a woman is beaten by a man once and forgive the man once, there will be two or three chances of being beaten. Don't watch men slap yourself on the face after they hit you. They just want to continue to hit you and play with you. Just like how many women forgive their husbands for cheating, in the end her husband still keeps cheating, and finally the women drive themselves crazy.

It is too easy for men in marriage to engage in women, drive women crazy, and kidnap women morally.

According to statistics from the All-China Women’s Federation, in China, on average, a woman is beaten by her husband every 7.4 seconds. Among the 270 million households in the country, 30% of married women have experienced domestic violence. Every year, 157,000 women commit suicide, and 60% of them commit suicide because of domestic violence.

domestic violence causes deaths, which account for more than 40% of women's homicides. In a year, more than 2,000 domestic violence shelters across the country only provided asylum services for 149 people. Asylum centers in some areas have not even had asylum cases for many years.

The determination of domestic violence in court hearings is equally difficult. From 2014 to 2016, the number of first-instance cases involving domestic violence nationwide was 94,571, of which 3,741 were found to be domestic violence, and the affirmation rate was only 3.96%. Many domestic violence incidents are not resolved due to "insufficient evidence".

Even in a developed place like Shanghai, on the first anniversary of the implementation of the Anti-Domestic Violence Law, 45 of the 140 applications for protection orders were approved, 45 were rejected, and 50 were withdrawn by the applicant after interpretation. Some perpetrators voluntarily promised to protectThe victims of 37 cases withdrew their applications voluntarily.

Why women don’t want to get married more and more

Why women don’t want to get married more and more? It’s because women nowadays have seen the truth about marriage, and they often kill their wives. The man who smashed the body and burned his wife clearly saw that the man also understood that the so-called good marriage does not exist. Those women who do their best to be the perfect women benchmark for love and marriage are actually deceiving themselves.

After all, in the long marriage life, from the beginning to the end, many men just regarded women as their own appendages. They did not correctly recognize the gender of women. Under the influence of their father’s domestic violence mother’s native family, they domesticated their wives. Women who are everywhere in the previous generation of

dare not resist when they encounter domestic violence, thinking they are inferior to men. I hope that women of this generation will not tolerate domestic violence on the issue of men beating women, and they must not let domestic violence men affect their lives. Z1z

Marriage is just a multiple choice question in life. At the core, you must be financially independent and be able to act independently. Z11z

After all, marriage cannot change your destiny. The so-called men with good conditions do not mean good character. Those so-called unconditional men do not mean that they are really good to you, because they have nothing but to be good to you, and they also have a plan to be good to you.

Women must rely on themselves and live their lives on their own ability. Otherwise, your so-called husband and children can't look at you high, life is cruel, please don't give up your life easily, and stay away from trash men!

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