now has more and more people who like to travel by car, and some of my friends have even started to travel from the media, but many people have been doing it for more than a year and have not become popular. With such an aunt, since the beginning of the self-driving tour, she has received the attention and love of many people.
Why can she become popular so quickly? Because after reading her experience, many netizens said that they seemed to see themselves.
1, met a selfish husband, worked hard for a lifetime, and still has an optimistic mentality.
Su Min is 56 years old and lives in Zhengzhou. He lived in Sichuan as a child, so he speaks Sichuanese. After she married her husband, financially, she has always been under the AA system.
Her husband spends the money he usually earns, and buys vegetables at most, and asks him for money, but he says he has no money. Su Min usually earns money to support her daughter's education and family expenses.
Su Min worked in a company at first, and then the factory closed. She worked as a mason, sold newspapers, scanned the road, and learned tailoring. She can make clothes and pants, a supermarket salesperson, and sell fruits...
, There is only one daughter in the family, and the husband should be able to maintain the family by working alone. However, Su Min had never been idle, and couldn't do this job, so he hurriedly made another living. used her words: There is no money to spend when idle! Because she has been working, she has a good body, she said in the video.
2. The relationship between husband and wife is not good, life is too disturbing, and the mood is very depressed.
Although Su Min and her husband live under the same roof, they are not like a family, and the relationship between the two is very bad. In life, Su Min not only has to go to work and do housework, but also earn money for himself, which is a free babysitter.
She said a few small things about her husband: The car is equipped with an ETC card, which is bound to her husband’s bank card. Su Min uses more, and he will take care of her asking for money; usually, if Su Min refuels the car, if Su Min When they drive too much, the husband will complain, saying that she does errands for her natal family and pays the gas bill; the husband buys too much vegetables, and Su Min said that it’s a pity that the buying too many vegetables is broken, but the husband says that it’s broken and throws it away. Buy...
these things, let alone experience, I feel very annoyed to hear it! His husband’s pension now has more than 4,000 yuan a month, but it is not enough for him to spend it alone. Is such a person too selfish?
Living with such a man is really hard not to make trouble.
3, was hurt by marriage, but did not want to divorce
Many people watched Aunt Su Min’s video and persuaded her to divorce. Regarding the divorce, Su Min said that he would not be divorced, not because he did not want to leave, but because he felt that there was no need to leave.
Before the child was young, I endured it for the sake of the child; later, the child had to marry after graduation, and worried that others would say that his daughter is a single-parent family, and then endured it; later, I helped my daughter with the child, and now my grandson is in kindergarten! After so many years, I have endured it, so what can I not bear?
She said that her husband’s name was written in the home ownership certificate, and if divorced, she would have nothing. If she doesn't get divorced, she will treat her husband as a decoration. She still has a home and a place to live. If you get a divorce, you are making trouble for your daughter!
She said that her marriage had hurt her so much that even if she was divorced, she would never look for it again. was hurt by marriage and saw it through, so he chose not to divorce! Because it has become rational, it is the same without divorce!
has worked all his life for his daughter, and also endured all his life! Isn't there a lot of women doing this now? Thinking about divorce, thinking about it, and looking back, I have endured it for decades.
4, I want to take a self-driving tour to relax and see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland
. She said that if she continues to live like this at home, she will be depressed. Now her grandson is going to school, she cannot stay at home like this. Seeing others traveling by car on the Internet and seeing a lot of beautiful scenery, she has the idea of traveling by car. The
car was bought when she was at work. At that time, she took 10,000 yuan and her daughter took 30,000 yuan and bought them in installments. Later, she bought more than 10,000 yuan worth of equipment, tents, cooking, and other things to use during the trip.
Aunt Su Min now has a pension of more than two thousand yuan per month, plus travel videos, which can subsidize living and travel expenses! When
first set out, Su Min did not make a long-term travel plan, but likes warm places. Winter is coming soon, she has to go south!
Someone asked her when she would go home. She said she likes her current state very much and feels much better. When one day she feels that she has no complaints but sympathy for her wife, she might go back!
After reading the experience of Aunt Su Min, I expressed my understanding. Some people said that they are experiencing this kind of life:
Some netizens said that they want to be like Su Min, but the current conditions do not allow:
They are all supportive and welcome her to be a guest:
Aunt Su Min’s self-driving tour actually represents millions of women trapped in their lives. We all have a heart that yearns for freedom, but because we are bound by our family, children, and parents, we can't be so cool!
Nowadays women are really tired, especially when they encounter a selfish husband, and the pressure in life is so heavy nowadays, it is even more difficult for a woman to carry it off.
A woman should really live for herself once in her life, without cooking, without worrying about the lives of her husband and children, and go for a chic walk!
Finally, I want to say to Aunt Su Min, driving alone, you must pay attention to safety! Take us to see the wonderful rivers and mountains of the motherland together!
Do you want to live such a life? Anyway, I think it's too rusty, I want to try it!
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