40 years old has different meanings for men and women. When men reach this age, they will become more and more masculine. Their mature and stable characteristics are extremely attractive to women. "Women's 40 tofu dregs" is probably the description for women of this age. Most women live a life of firewood, rice and salt, so they don't have time to take care of them, and their positivity will be wiped out by life.
In married life, people go from passion to plain. After many years of life, most couples will become accustomed to each other's existence, and the initial love has long been sublimated to family affection. For a woman, this is exactly the stability and ease she yearns for. People are over 40 years old. In married life, what is a woman most afraid of her husband? Hear the truth from the people who came over. Z1z
Ms. Qin is 42 years old. She is most afraid of her husband sharing a room with her after a fight. Z1z
My husband and I met on a blind date, but we were in love for almost 3 years before we got married. With a stable relationship foundation, it is responsible for marriage and for each other. Now that I’m this age, it’s a lie to say that I don’t quarrel. I think it’s normal for husband and wife to quarrel, and good relationships will never go away, but I am most afraid that he will sleep in a separate room with me after a fight.
I’m anxious, and I just say what I have in a fight. After I feel happy, I will reflect on myself, find out the problem, and reconcile as before. But my husband is the opposite of me. He bears grudges. Even if he apologizes, he will fight with me for a few days, and even sleep with me in a separate room.
When I was young, he would coax me every time I was angry, buy me snacks or even make faces. And now he may not have much patience. For me, he is used to it. At first, he almost divorced him because of his behavior. Now although I am also angry, I don't think about divorce.
all said that we will take care of each other and support each other for life in the future. So more often, I will divert my attention. When he is completely relieved and actively seek me, we will reconcile as before.
Ms. Huang is 45 years old, and I am most afraid of my husband’s change of heart.
My husband and I are in a free relationship. He was a talented person and had excellent grades, so he entered a good unit as soon as he graduated. And I looked average, working in a private company, and I became pregnant in the second year after marriage. Various severe pregnancy reactions forced me to quit my job and get a baby with peace of mind. My mother-in-law is in poor health, and my natal family is far away. I am almost the one who takes care of the children after giving birth.
until now I am in charge of the chores at home, and my husband is working outside, we rarely live each other’s lives, but one thing happened that made me feel completely insecure. Once my husband’s documents were left at home, and because of their importance, they told me on the phone. After cleaning up the housework, I did not freshen up as usual, and went to my husband's unit in casual clothes.
When I opened the door, I saw that the unit was full of young, beautiful and well-built young girls. After learning who my husband was, they greeted me enthusiastically and took me to his office. He is discussing a problem with a female colleague, but it is not difficult to see that the female colleague admires him very much, and even the look in his eyes is with admiration.
After seeing me here, he patted me on the head as usual, telling me to be careful when I go home, and then continue to work. The female colleague sneered when she saw me and went out. I don't know if I am embarrassed by him. I was very disappointed at that moment when I saw other women by his side and hadn't been jealous for so many years.
I was very afraid that he would change my mind, so he asked him when he got off work: "Do you still love me?" But he smiled and said, "Which man will work hard every day for a woman he doesn't love?" At that moment we seem to be back when we were just in love. Since then, I have been strict with myself. Although I am not young, I should be a delicate and temperament woman. I think beauty does not distinguish age, the key is whether you have a heart that loves beauty.
A good wife, in addition to handling housework, she must have three qualities: a mother, a good companion, and a lover. ——Shakespeare
I think that a woman who enters a marriage actually has only one requirement: the perfect family and the love of the other half! I hope every man can cherish his wife and take on this family!
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