Intimate | Emotional Psychology after Five Points

Take a look at how many of you have, and the truth will come to light after stepping on the pit.

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Your temperament hides the person you have loved.

has a saying like this, your temperament hides the road you have walked, the books you have read and the person you love. How does the person you love affect your temperament?

analyzes from the perspective of psychology, two people in close contact, as long as they maintain a certain time and frequency, each other's body will be contaminated with the other's habits and marks.

may be a hobby, it may be a habit of speaking, it may be a way of thinking.

Once these thoughts and habits are formed, even if two people in close contact break up, they will continue to affect their lives.

Therefore, the best way to strengthen the emotional connection is to fully integrate into his life. Once the other party finds your traces everywhere, you will be within the other party's comfort zone.

and people are aversion to pressure and like comfort. The more you know about

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, the worse your impression

. Many people have this experience. Two people in a passionate love period can't wait to stick together every day, and they are very tolerant and understanding of the shortcomings of lovers.

After a period of time, the other party's advantages seem to be less and less, but the disadvantages are gradually enlarged. This is the instrumental effect of psychology.

means that when we have not established a relationship with each other, we cannot realize the price behind each other's strengths.

For example, a very beautiful girl appears in front of everyone at the cost of washing and makeup for two hours. But when you become a partner, this price will affect you.

Buying cosmetics costs you money;

washing and makeup in the morning disturbs your sleep;

waist-length hair requires you to go through the drain every other day.

girls are the same. They like the unrestrainedness and unrestrainedness of boys, and they also have to bear the roughness and impulsive combativeness after becoming a partner; they like the exquisite faces of boys, and they also have to bear the cumbersome and cleanliness of becoming a partner.

fully considers the instrumental attributes of the other party, that is, what are the requirements after becoming your partner, in order to make a relationship last long.

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The essence of love is to meet the needs of

. The beginning of any intimate relationship is that both parties can get needs from each other.

Whether it's beauty or money, whether it's guidance or understanding. In essence, any behavior of is to hope that the other party will give feedback and give feedback to the needs and targets.

The reason why many people broke up and were broken up is that they overestimate whether their needs are met, and ignore the other's needs and belonging.

In the early days of love, men will suppress their own needs and meet the needs of women; in the love period, the needs of men and women are roughly equal; after the period of love, men will gradually require women to meet their needs.

And when the needs are not met, or the women still demand the men too much after the love period, it will cause the relationship to break up and break up.

and the satisfaction of needs and dedication, to a large extent determine which side of the man and woman is dominant. The essence of

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chat is the mobilization of emotions. Z4z

chat is not in frequency and length, but in being able to mobilize the other party’s emotions.

Why don't you make a decision at night? People are more sentimental at night, seldom interfered by external things, and emotional ups and downs are greater.

So try to chat with the person you like at night, and talk about some topics that can arouse your emotions.

has become the two sides of a couple, don't be limited to form and task.

engage in more spiritual interactions to make each other's emotions rise and fall, and when you feel positive emotions, love can last forever.

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Don’t do unsustainable things.

Habit is a terrible thing. If the other party is used to getting a piece of candy every day, and one day suddenly does not get it, the other party will think you are a bad person.

What is unsustainable? It's the kind of level you can barely reach with your hard work.

Love is so, so is work.

This is not growth, this is growth. Every request is squeezing your enthusiasm and energy.

is not that highIf you enter, don’t give your girlfriend 888 red envelopes during the holidays;

doesn’t have strong strength, don’t take over work beyond your ability;

doesn’t have diamonds, porcelain is much lazy, and something will happen sooner or later.

In love, the one who is most afraid of being too full, does not leave room for oneself, and there is no room for improvement in the relationship.