is a very beautiful thing. Many girls like the pursuit and admiration of boys. They think it is very romantic. However, many boys in society are reluctant to fall in love, or even to get married.
Xiaojia has a few male friends in his thirties who are still single. When asked why they didn't find a girlfriend to marry, each of them answered uniformly. Xiaojia found through searching information that many men across the country were reluctant to pursue girls or fall in love. "Don't pursue girls" seems to have formed a consensus between them. Even if they have reached the age of marriage, they are still not nervous or anxious.
So why are more and more boys reluctant to pursue girls? I believe that many people find it incredible when they hear this question. Now there are many boys and girls in China. If boys do not pursue girls, many people will die alone.
First of all, most boys like to play games, because playing games does not consume too much energy or a lot of money. Over time, I will have a sense of dependence on the current environment, and I am worried that I will be restricted from playing games after I find a girlfriend, and gradually I won’t consider my girlfriend again.
Secondly, for many boys, falling in love is a very hard thing. It not only consumes a lot of energy, but also "expends" a lot of money. Nowadays, the pressure of life is increasing. In addition to daily expenses, the monthly salary may have to be exchanged for loans. Life is no longer easy. If you fall in love again, the pressure of life may become even greater, so many Boys would rather bear it alone than let their girlfriends suffer.
Finally, people are less and less confident in love is one of the main reasons. Nowadays, it’s not enough to just say “I love you” on the lips, especially “marriage.” Marriage requires a car and a house, and “hard conditions” such as high-priced gifts. These conditions may not be difficult for wealthy families, but for ordinary families it is impossible to meet them. Therefore, facing these requirements, more and more men are reluctant to fall in love.
Women are afraid of encountering scumbags, but how can they be different from boys? Not only women, some men don’t want to fall in love after being hurt emotionally.
Why don’t boys want to fall in love? Sometimes it's really not that they don't want to fall in love, it's not that they can't fall in love. This sentence sounds like an excuse, like irresponsibility, but it is more helpless and sad in men's hearts. Living alone is monotonous, but after a long time, many people still need the other half. After all, for most people, getting married is still very important.