refer to? Would you hesitate to answer this question? What is the difference between really socializing and playing? This article tries to summarize the difference between what everyone cares about and serious communication, what is communication, whether there is a definition, etc. What exactly is
? Is communication defined? After
fell in love with the person we like, we became a state of so-called "association". Dating, live outside, frequent contact. But is this the definition of communication? Now, friends who only kiss and friends who only hug are not uncommon, and there are also people who have dating functions just like boyfriends. In this case, there is no change in the state of interaction. In this article,
thinks about what communication is, and investigates the serious standards and play standards, and also considers the reasons and advantages of playing. Those who don’t know the difference between serious socializing and playing, please read to the end.
Serious standards
Many women worry about whether men are dating because of play. It is easy to understand the standards of play and seriousness shown by men. If it can be used as a reference, as a criterion for judging whether you are serious or playing, we will also be very happy.
First of all, if you are serious, you will definitely return to true love. Men have the consciousness that they must go back. Even if he is full of sweet words, if you find any reason not to be with you, the possibility of playing is very high. In other words, he can be considered serious when he considers himself very first.
On the contrary, if there is nothing to arrange or do not cooperate, there is no intention of serious communication, and the possibility of communication in a playful way is very high. Give priority to you, cooperate with your itinerary, if you are with you for a long time, you can be considered serious, please rest assured.
The standard of seriousness
will introduce you to his male acquaintances when you are in a serious relationship. If you don’t say it’s your girlfriend, you don’t introduce it, you might have fun. Because men are honest creatures, they are not good at forcibly lying and deal with the situation well. At this time, there will be truth and nature.
In addition, if you really plan to date, sometimes you will be taken to a place with male friends. When playing, if the introduction is not good, it will reveal the flaws, so it is not likely to take girls to the male friend's partner. As one of the key points to see clearly, please check it when you meet a male friend.
The standard of seriousness
When talking together, he turns his face to your side, and turns his body to your side, the seriousness is quite high. If it is a person who is not interested, people will not turn their body to the person who is not interested, nor will they listen so seriously. Although it is easy to overlook, it can be said to be a sufficient point for judging whether it is serious or playing.
will also listen to her words seriously for those who want to seriously communicate with her, and can listen to her both body and whole body. There are also men sitting very close together. Because it's serious? Even though I think so, it is possible to play too close. If it is not a controlled distance, maybe it is just for the body to communicate. The standard of
is serious. When
wants to define whether he is serious or playing, the part of his judgment is how he expresses love. The more words you like and love, the higher the possibility of playing. The reason is that as long as you say like and love, women will be happy and follow you. Regardless of the consequences, as long as you are happy now, the idler type tends to talk sweetly and sweetly about likes and loves. Please pay attention to this. If
is serious communication, will cherish the opportunity to convey love. Of course, as an expression of love for serious communication, there are also situations where you often say you like it. But as a standard, if you are easily said to be liked or loved by him, or are said to please him, it is best to be wary that he may be playing.
The more serious the standard
, the more you want to think about the future. Men will also seriously consider how they want to associate with you and what they want to become. Discussing the future design, if two people move toward this goal, it can be said to be a serious relationship. Be confident, cherish that man, and deepen relationships.
On the contrary, if you only consider the current situation, or want to take action without considering the consequences, it is very dangerous to play. The relationship is temporary, so he thinks it doesn't matter what happens afterwards. If you yourself think that as long as you communicate now, then there is no problem, but if you also seriously consider the future, then it is obviously inappropriate. Please be sure to see whether your boyfriend is thinking about the future or is the type of enjoying the present happiness.
The standard of seriousness
Even when you are weak, you will depend on the people you really like. And he will encourage you to listen to you when you are weak. If it is a relationship of mutual support and mutual weakness, it can be said to be a serious relationship. Real interaction does not mean showing the good side to each other. Showing each other's weaknesses and making up for them can be regarded as the definition of serious communication. When playing
, only show the cool part. The reason for this is that women will leave at that time. Because it's a frivolous relationship, I don't think deeply about it and only let the other person see the good side of the relationship. It might be fine for the time being. Having a handsome boyfriend is also a kind of pride. But that is not eternal. When you want to have a long-term relationship, both strong and weak must show each other's shortcomings. When you want to determine whether it is a serious relationship or a standard for playing, please see if he can speak his heart, and how he will react if you speak his heart.
playing standard
think that the standard of playing is contrary to the serious standard. Basically, hedonism is mostly the relationship of play, which is characterized by not considering the consequences and focusing on enjoying the present. When men and women play, they act according to the situation of men. Even if there is an agreement, it will be broken, or he will be called out suddenly. Therefore, there are many cases where women are led by their noses. If you say it better, you are in a bad mood, and if you say it’s worse, it is a male who interacts with yourself as the center.
playing standard
The definition of serious communication can be said to attach importance to each other. The physical relationship is the same. He will seize the opportunity and wait for women to respond to his mood. The initial timing is the most important. If you don’t get close right away, you will probably be considered serious communication. In contrast, if it's playing, women's mood is not that important. As just said, the reason for playful communication is more hedonistic. When the relationship is forced immediately, there are many situations of playing.
played standard
. Two people had a very pleasant time, but they suddenly lost contact. Have you ever had this experience? You might think I did something bad? If you are so worried, you will get in touch after a while. If it doesn't matter, you should pay attention. If you are playing, you are satisfied. He will keep in close contact with you until he is satisfied, and he will have a good time meeting. It turns out that you won’t be contacted until the man wants to be satisfied again.
Contrary to this, in the case of serious communication, the follow-up after the appointment will be carried out well. Sharing happy memories, next date, conveying deepened love, etc., there will definitely be contact, and the message will be replied after the message is sent. According to the different reactions after dating, you can judge whether to play or be serious. The standard played by
wants to decide the content of the date but throws all the arrangements to you, or only emphasizes your own opinions but does not listen to your request, it can be regarded as a playful relationship. Although it is playing, men who want to satisfy their desires will only impose their wishes on others and only think about what they enjoy.
Where do you want to go? What do you want to do? If you are asked this way, it can be judged that you are valued. Because the more serious the communication, the more I want to make women happy. From the female side, ask about where men want to go and what they want to do. You can associate more seriously.
play standard
Have you ever heard of not feeding the caught fish? This is the definition of play. The reason is that in order to play, it is necessary to feed the females, and once they are caught, they are no longer needed. When he first met, he praised you a lot, you communicated and cherished you, but once you have a physical relationship, he will become as cold as a fake. If
is serious, I always want to praise beautiful women. Because he wants to express love, but also wants to cherish love, this is true love.
playing standard
have heard "kissing only andPeople who really like this? Generally speaking, this is the attitude of women towards kissing, but it is not universal to men. Whether it is playing or serious, if you want to kiss, men will kiss. It can be said that they are playing It is difficult to distinguish between serious and serious by kissing. But kissing can also be seen in tenderness. Kissing is the act of two people together, even if it is a self-satisfying kiss, it will not make people feel comfortable. What a man will do It’s better to judge by kissing.
Conclusion
I hope you can find your only way of communication and have a serious and pleasant relationship.
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