It is undeniable that in today's society, there are more and more celibate groups with leftover men and women.
In principle, everyone has continuous emotional needs in the young and middle ages. Why do some people prefer to endure the years of loneliness alone for a long time, instead of solving their lifelong events in time?
Women still remain single in middle age, what do they think?
is actually nothing more than the following three. The answer given by a lady is more convincing. It should be said that it can let everyone understand what they think.
01.
Yu Xiao is 43 years old this year, she is a middle-aged woman. Until now, I am still alone, without a normal family.
From the perspective of outsiders, there is a lonely family, no man's protection by his side, no children's love, life is very dry and boring, without any taste or joy at all.
But she doesn’t think of her life like this at all. Work fills up part of the time, and the rest will not be delayed in improving herself and eating, drinking, and having fun. Unlike the married female friends or colleagues around her, her husband, The child stumbles and cannot move, don't have a lot of happiness and freedom.
So, did she choose her singleness on her own initiative? Actually not. Strictly speaking,
delayed too long because of obsession. When she was young, she was abandoned by her boyfriend and she was shocked. For several years, she was reluctant to talk about relationship-related matters and refused to date. As
is getting older, she has come out, but the range of options for the opposite sex is getting smaller and smaller, and she has never met the right one, and gradually got used to a person, and then let it go to the present day.
02.
Speaking of this, Yu Xiao's parents still cannot let go. Parents all over the world want to see their children have a stable home, so they can rest assured.
is a matter of affection and marriage, and it cannot be forced. I can only arrange and create some blind date opportunities as much as possible to help my daughter solve personal problems.
But even after she walks out of a broken relationship, because of her narrow work and life circle, she can't meet the opposite sex that she likes. Let's go on a blind date. She is still unwilling to lower the requirements of the other half, and she will be older and become herself. Become the object of men's dislike.
feels that her value is seriously underestimated by the market, but with her own conditions and age, she can't change her fate against the sky and win the ideal love, so she adopts an indifferent attitude and continues her single life. .
simply did not bother to worry about his lifelong events, and passed the present day with an attitude that neither completely gave up the expectation of love and marriage, but was not overly eager.
Although others think that she wasted a lot of youth and time, in her opinion, time flies quickly, and there is not much to remember.
03.
Why do you say that? Because ordinary women have to go through at least a few stages to reach middle age: fall in love, get married, have children, raise children and grow up.
, except for her love experience, all the latter are absent.
can be said that she has always continued the life pattern of her youth. Apart from going to work, she has the pleasure of living her single life. This is why the mood of the leftover woman and the divorced woman at the same age are so different.
The leftover women lack a lot of common sense to truly understand the emotions of the sexes, the essence of marriage, and family relationships. Their hearts and thoughts stay forever when they are young.
As long as they have a stable job and income, and cannot feel the difficulties and embarrassment brought about by life, they are really easy to think that marriage is not a necessity, and they will enjoy the state of living alone happily and comfortably.
has the need and impulse to get married, so there is the motivation to solve the problem, right? A woman like Yu Xiao who has always been single, just lacks, is such a powerful motivation!
Concluding remarks:
young men and women, in addition to the need for love and the ability to find love, are not enough, but also have a strong emotional self-healing ability.
After all, there are considerable variables in feelings. Not to mention the high probability of unsuccessfulness, it is not uncommon to encounter scumbag men and women.
One setback is rightIf you have formed a strong obstacle, there are really not many golden years in your life that can withstand the delays and toss of several broken relationships.
adjust the mood as soon as possible to get out of the shadows, and then grasp all opportunities in a pragmatic manner, see more, get in touch with the opposite sex, and choose a suitable love partner from the possible candidates. This way the remaining possibility may be greatly reduced.
But then again, the truth is quite simple and easy to understand, but everyone's personality and emotions are very different. For women who are naturally sexy and fragile, it may not be too much to follow this procedure. .
Those women who are still single in middle age are nothing more than idiots, obsessions, and desires, and they don't care so much about being left behind.
Faced with this situation, it is most important to live a happy life.
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