A few days ago, I saw a friend posted a chat history between himself and others in his circle of friends. Most of them were friends talking, and the other party would reply occasionally.
In these nine chat records, the time span is as long as more than a year, from the time when the friend was just pregnant to the one year old of the child.
My friend bought a house with her husband, and now that there are more and more places to spend money to give birth to a child, I hope the other party can pay it back.
However, for as long as a year, the other party did not pay her a penny, and even pretended not to see her news until the day she posted the chat log.
Her husband has postponed his work, and she has no job because of having a child. Tomorrow is the day to repay the mortgage. In despair, she hopes that her friend can pay her back.
gave generously when the other party was in difficulty, and now he is also facing a difficult situation, hoping that the other party will pay back the money for the sake of helping her.
However, the other party still chose to turn a blind eye, and finally the angry friend decided to expose this person, and at the same time ended the 18-year friendship between the two. This incident of my friend
reminded me of my own experience. Not long ago, a friend finally gave me the 3,000 yuan owed to me for two years.
It is hard to imagine that when I received the money, I actually had a wrong feeling that my friend returned the 3,000 yuan as if I had picked it up for nothing. When
think about it carefully, you will find that the 3000 yuan was originally my own money, and the other party borrowed his own money and then returned it to myself.
However, why people give birth to this kind of other people to pay their own money, just like picking it up for nothing? After all, many people have no illusions about the money borrowed.
even in the hearts of some people, some money is borrowed, just like giving it out.
Before, it was the uncle who borrowed money from others, but now it is the uncle who borrowed money. Obviously, if you borrow money from others, you can behave as it should be.
Regardless of whether you really need money or fake money, as long as you urge him to pay it back, he may still put a stingy hat on you.
People of the older generation always keep their promises, whether they are talking or doing things, such as borrowing money and paying it back whenever you say it, and never sluggish.
Even if you don’t have enough money, you have to pay it back because you owe other people’s money, and you feel uneasy when you sleep at night.
The current people can delay as long as they can. If you don't remind him to pay the money, he will pretend to forget. If you urge him to pay the money, he will say you are stingy.
Especially between relatives and friends, if you borrow some money, you basically give it away. Many of them are bad debts. If you lose your money, you don’t feel good about it.
After all, some people have a very thick-skinned face. If you ask him to pay back the money, he gets all kinds of scoldings. In the end, you become the unsympathetic person in the eyes of everyone.
Just like Yu Huanshui and Lu Fumeng in "I Am Yu Huanshui", Lu Fumeng had difficulties, and Yu Huanshui borrowed 130,000 yuan to his good brother without hesitation.
Yu Huanshui didn't mention it after that, Lu Fumeng seemed to have forgotten about it, and never mentioned the issue of repaying the money. With Lu Fumeng's financial resources, repaying the money was a matter of minutes.
But later when Yu Huanshui needed money, Yu Huanshui asked Lu Fumeng for money. Lu Fumeng agreed, but finally released Yu Huanshui’s pigeons, which made Yu Huanshui’s wife misunderstand him.
had no choice, Yu Huanshui had to find his good brother Lu Fumeng, all kinds of pleading, in short, hope that Lu Fumeng can give himself the money as soon as possible, so that he can buy a car for his wife.
However, things backfired. Lu Fumeng even recorded the 130,000 borrowed as 110,000. Is this really a mistake? Lu Fumeng's perfunctory attitude finally angered Yu Huanshui, and finally hesitated to tear his skin with Lu Fumeng. The editor of
said: Everyone is an adult. Whoever doesn't lack money in his hands, borrows money and repays it on time, this is the basic credit of being a human being.
There is a lot of pressure in life now. Everyone does not need to spend money, so why make it difficult to beat workers.
For those who don’t repay the borrowed money, don’t associate anymore. You can do that without repaying the borrowed money, and your character is not much better.
It costs money for children to go to school, money for parents when they are sick, and money for family life. Don’t spend your own money on unreliable peopleBody.
all say "the heart is separated from the belly", although we will never know what the other person is thinking, time will help us prove everything, and those hypocritical people will eventually show their feet.
The ancients said: "It's hard to paint a tiger and paint a bone, knowing people, knowing the face and not knowing the heart." Recognizing people is indeed a university question. In the interaction between people, it is also a skill to know people.
If you are interested, you can take a look at these psychology, which is still very helpful to people. I hope that every reader will be a beloved person in the future.
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