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When love meets marriage, have you ever doubted your relationship?

In the past, those who made the heart beat faster, how did they lose their light in the trivial life?

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Those adventurous dreams of you

We are from school uniforms to wedding dresses in the eyes of others. Once I graduated from university, I willingly jumped into the grave of marriage. On the day of obtaining the certificate, I posted a circle of friends with the content: Since I recognized you, I have never Envy others.

In a blink of an eye, a few years have passed, a place of chicken feathers, firewood, rice, oil and salt, and a lot of fighting, in fact, it really seems to have experienced a lot, but there is no so-called love spark, there are not so many love surprises; meaningless quarrels and contradictions Little by little.

I asked you, if you didn’t choose me at that time, what would happen now, you said: "Maybe it’s not as good as now";

now, our lives are all in whose family we are getting married again, this time we need to pay as many gifts as we need to transfer The money is paid back to the mortgage, what happened to the elderly, what is wrong with the child... Our conversation is all about what do you want to eat today, have you got off work, where have you been, the child was bitten by a mosquito today.. .... There are a lot of trivial matters, and quarrels have gradually become endless. Lovers become fighters, as if they are constantly consuming the emotional inventory.

I know that getting married will inevitably encounter these problems, but I still overestimate my endurance. We all know that we should share and be considerate of each other, but people are always selfish.

When you fall in love, you can give everything for you with a passion, but after you get to know each other, you will start arguing about how much you paid.

After all, when we are in love, what we show to each other are our own strengths, and getting married is really to live with each other’s strengths and weaknesses;

Fortunately, we all know each other well, otherwise we might be separated long ago;

occasionally Will doubt, is there really that kind of love that is full of eyes and only for you?

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I will go crazy with you

Actually, the emotion I want to talk about today is still full of heart. The few girls talked together about each other's family and life trivial matters. Once they talked about their past, they discovered that the past ten years are true I have experienced a lot; the life of

seems to be not the storyline of the previous dreams. I have seen many other people's stories and heard a lot of entanglements. I found that what actually scares us is not the unknown, but the trivial. Z1z

And I am really afraid that we can see our days at a glance.

is like acting in a movie, she is making the same fried noodles again, and the boring drama is repeatedly shown on TV. She sucks and sucks as always when eating noodles. The man said: "Let's get a divorce." The woman answered "Yeah" while eating noodles, and then reacted again: "You have someone outside?" "Why am I doing something wrong?" Inexplicably sad. Z1z

When we are independent individuals, we are all working hard, loving seriously and looking forward to love and good luck, but when we become a closely related group, we always have high expectations for the other half.

She is cute when she loves her noodles and sucks when she is numb. She is sloppy when she is numb.

In love, people always unconsciously become double targets.

But I don't want to disappoint you, I don't want you to disappoint me either.

Go back to the starting point and take a look. We are two unrelated people who have no blood relationship. How come we have so many demands because of love and togetherness, and become a bondage?

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Because love is too heavy

Good love should be preferred, but the preference is more worthwhile, and should be more grateful, rather than taking it for granted.

When love meets marriage, we are full of water when we are in love. We are carefree and we share happiness together. We always feel that each other is heaven. As long as we are together, we are happy and happy. After marriage, there are many responsibilities and obligations. After waiting, I realized that marriage is not sugar, but more like firewood, rice, oil and salt.

There is a passage like this:

"Every woman will fall into a bowl of hot soup that a man brings home from get off work. In fact, it is not that the soup is delicious, but it turns out that you still take me to heart."

You see, this is mutual, right!

From 18 to 28 years old, ten years is not easy, you bring me a bowl of soup, I cook a meal for you, you shelter me from the wind and rain, I will camp for you.