Marriage of men at the bottom of the countryside, you can’t even think of it, a matchmaker will come to the door before a woman is divorced

From the perspective of population ratio, China currently has 30 million bachelors. The patriarchal ideology of the older generation and the family planning policy a few decades ago caused many families to secretly conduct gender screening, resulting in a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women in the marriage market. Men choose their mates all the way down, and men at the bottom of the village have no choice. There is no love, no qualifications to choose, as long as the other party is willing to accept, not stupid or disabled, it is already a god.

Jiang Mou, 25 years old this year, just married, this age is not enough in the city to be anxious, but in his village, he is already a proper older man, because girls are relatively scarce, boys are about the same age, parents I started to talk about it, for fear that it would be too late, it would be robbed, so people in rural areas who did not go to college often married and had children early.

Jiang's object gave birth to a child out of wedlock and brought a girl. Jiang was actually dissatisfied with his marriage. But there is no way, I am afraid that if I miss it, I can't find it. Looking at the colors of the parents' hopes and thinking of their own realistic conditions, they can only compromise. Jiang's cousin, Xiao Chen, just missed it. It is now thirty-four and five. With this age and family conditions, if it weren't for a miracle, he could basically declare that he had no chance of getting married and having children.

Xiao Chen was not without a chance, he just missed it step by step. The matchmaker introduced the divorced from the beginning. He felt that he was the first marriage, but did not agree. Unmarried people would not look down on him again. After a few years Later, he felt that divorced was okay. The matchmaker told him a divorced boy, he only agreed to bring girls at most. He felt that the boy would spend a lot of money to marry in the future, and the marriage would have been delayed. Now, he thinks that divorced can also be The younger ones don’t look down on him, and the older ones don’t look down on him when the children are older.

Shu, there is a mental problem at the moment, and the reason for the mental problem comes from marriage. Three years ago, his parents watched him getting older and still not getting married. They were broken every day, and the matchmakers dragged on several times and nothing happened. In order to win the limited resources, his mother promised the matchmaker a lot of thanks. Under the temptation of the matchmaker, the matchmaker found a married woman.

It turned out that this woman gave birth to a child, because the couple quarreled and went back to her natal family. They were getting divorced. So the matchmaker came to talk about kissing when the other party was divorcing. The other party said that the marriage must be divorced, so she agreed to a blind date, Shu Mou At first, I disagreed and felt that the other party did not get a divorce. This is not appropriate. However, his parents told him that it would be nice if he was willing to marry a woman under his own conditions, so he must not pick.

So Shumou got a blind date with this woman, and after both parties negotiated all aspects of the bride price, they quickly became married, but they didn't get a certificate. It didn't take long for the woman's husband to find out and found him, and the two families were torn together. Finally, the police station came. After mediation, the woman was asked to go back to her natal family. If she wanted to remarry, she had to divorce first. The woman left, but Shu could no longer wait for the other party's divorce. Unable to produce evidence, the marriage was completely horrified, the money was gone, and it became the laughingstock of the ten miles and villages, so he had a nervous breakdown, no longer talked to others, and often talked to himself alone.

Li, because his family is poor, he can't afford to marry, but he suffers from the idea of ​​filial piety and no one is the biggest. He is stigmatized by others and marries a demented person since childhood. The marriage was not done, and the person took it away. Later, the female was pregnant, but it was rumored that the child was not his. It was said that the female had an affair with a few bachelors in the village, and the male punched and kicked the female, and miscarried. Since then, she has not gone out to work and stayed at home everyday. So, until the woman became pregnant again and gave birth to a child to take care of her parents, she went out to work again to earn money.

Some people say that if you can't afford to marry, don't marry, and now you don't get married and you are going to dink more. But the countryside is different, and the living environment is doomed to look at problems. Moreover, non-marriage and DINK are the result of choice, and these bottom-level spouses are the result of no choice. The

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