Marriage is a major event in life. It should not be treated like a child's play. It must be treated with caution. Missing is a lifetime. With the continuous development of society, the present dowry is getting higher and higher. Many people choose to break up because of the high dowry. If the two families are really willing to fulfill the new couple, they must reach an agreement on the dowry. The amount of the gift is also The other party can get it, if faced with the sky-high price of the gift, it would make a family fragmented and it would not be able to get it. If this behavior occurs, it is really immoral.
Recently, when both Xiao Wu and his girlfriend who had been together for many years reached the age of marriage, they had an appointment with their parents. When it came to the gift money, the two parents had a disagreement, which led to Xiao Wu's resignation. The reason was not because the relationship between the two broke up, but because the mother-in-law prepared a list of gifts, what on earth was on the mother-in-law's list, scared Xiao Wu into retiring.
It turned out that the woman’s mother wrote a series of expenses on the paper. There are 6 items listed, which add up to more than 200,000 yuan. Xiao Wu also thinks about holding a wedding in his hometown. The whole wedding will cost three. Hundreds of thousands.
Xiao Wu is an ordinary office worker. There is no financial support in the family. Xiao Wu bought a house before getting married. This gift money puts a lot of pressure on Xiao Wu. The gift money is said to be negotiable, but the customs of each place are different. If you give less, you will be looked down upon by the locals. It would be difficult to give too much. After the incident of
was exposed on the Internet, netizens also expressed their opinions. Some netizens ridiculed that a wedding requires more than 300,000 yuan. To marry a daughter is to live together. If the man’s family wants to marry a wife, the family will be If it's hollowed out, can my daughter have a good life after marrying? If two people really love each other, don't care too much. Now that society is developing very fast, you should let go of your thinking.
Some netizens said that if a boy is willing to think about problems from the perspective of a girl, the gift of 300,000 yuan is also normal. After all, it is not easy to raise a daughter for more than 20 years. Just marry the man like this. After the daughter marries the man , The gift money is to be taken over, after all, every parent wants to make their children live better.
Some netizens said that if the man’s financial conditions are average and he can’t get the gift money requested by his mother-in-law, it is really embarrassing. Besides, can money buy happiness? Two people can live a good life by working hard together.
The amount of money given to the woman by the man as a gift represents his sincerity. If he empties his home and marries a daughter-in-law and comes back to live a poor life with him, it won’t take long for the other party to leave.
If the bride price is given according to the actual situation of the man, there will not be many couples to be separated, and the man can't reduce the bride price to the lowest level in order to knock down the woman. It is almost enough to choose an auspicious number.
Feelings are what you love me. If you choose to get married for money, the lives of two people will be a mess. You must consider it before getting married, and don't wait to regret it when you get married.
If two people choose to enter the palace of marriage, no matter what happens after marriage, they must be one mind to solve the difficulties in life. If both parents feel that their children’s life is more difficult, they can lend a helping hand to help the children. After all, they are all one family.
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