was unable to get pregnant. Since July 2018, a girl named Fang Mouyang in Dezhou, Shandong, has been tortured by her husband, parents-in-law, until January 2019, when she was beaten to death...
was so sad. The thing happened in 2019.
The woman has been abused by her in-laws for half a year. Why has her family not been inaction?
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The woman was abused to death by her in-laws after she got married. How did this tragedy happen?
According to media sources, the woman Fang Mouyang and her husband Zhang were introduced to each other by a matchmaker. They married on November 18, 2016. To marry Fang Mouyang, the Zhang family spent a total of 130,000 yuan.
In the winter of 2017, Zhang took Fang Mouyang to the hospital for an examination, and learned that Fang Mouyang could not get pregnant, and the Zhang family was very angry about the matter.
In July 2018, Zhang went to the Fang family to argue about his wife’s inability to get pregnant, and the two clashes. As a result, the Zhang family began to abuse Fang Mouyang with no food, standing in cold weather, beating and scolding...
In media reports, Sister Chao saw a detail: before Fang Mouyang’s father died,
Fang Mouyang wanted to see his daughter many times, but the Zhang family did not allow Fang Mouyang to return to her natal home. Even if the police station intervened to mediate, it was invalid. Fang’s family just didn’t. Fang Mouyang was allowed, so Fang Mouyang’s father did not see his daughter until his death, regretting for life.
Why does a married daughter need permission from her in-laws to return to her natal family?
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In some backward customs, women not only can't eat at the table, but married women can't go back to their parents' home often.
For the man’s family, the daughter-in-law who came back with a gift is a member of our old X family. If you marry a chicken, you will marry a dog or a dog, you will be desperate to live with us in the future. Often returning to your natal family will make them lose face. ——Do you want everyone to think that you have a bad time after marriage, so you always go to your family?
For the maiden family, "the water thrown out by the daughter who married out", the daughter is a member of someone else's family after she marries. Although I miss it, there is nothing we can do. This has always been the case.
It is precisely because of the backward concept of "marry a chicken, marry a dog, follow a dog" and "water thrown out by a married daughter" that caused many women to feel homeless after marriage.
"Is an outsider in my husband's house, and a guest in my natal family."
was bullied by her husband and had an unhappy marriage, so I had to endure it by myself.
There are even some divorced women who have nowhere to go back to their natal family, and will be rejected by the natal family, thinking that she is "ashamed". It is even worse if there are married brothers and brothers in the family, and they will be rejected by the sister-in-law and sister-in-law for eating idle meals.
Daughters live at their parents’ home, and it’s obvious how legitimate it is to eat meals from their parents’ home, but they will be rejected because of the feudal dregs of "the water thrown out by the married daughter."
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Even if it is 2020, even in big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, there are still many young couples arguing about who's home for the New Year.
One year at the woman’s house and one year at the man’s house. It’s so easy to resolve. The reason why there are disagreements is because many men think that you have married me. According to the custom, you should return to the man’s house for the New Year. What is the reason for returning to your natal family for the New Year? The so-called custom of
, in the final analysis, is the logic of "marry a chicken, marry a dog, follow a dog" and "water poured out by a married daughter".
Otherwise it is difficult to explain, why can't you return to your natal family for the New Year after you are married?
The Qing Dynasty has been dead for more than 100 years. When will this feudal dross be removed?
Both men and women are brought up by their parents, and they also have the obligation to provide for the elderly. They should be treated equally, and blood kinship will not change because of marriage. What is the saying that "the water thrown out by the married daughter will be another family member from now on It's ridiculous.
, like unmarried, has the freedom to return to her natal family at any time, which should be the legitimate right of every married woman.
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