In this age of advanced technology, people's minds will be relatively open and many things are willing to accept. Especially for women, if they are the man they love, then the woman will go all out to pay for this man and be ready to spend a lifetime with him.
But in the world of love, everything can happen. If you are lucky, then the god of love will take care of you and let you have a marriage that can have a fruitful and happy ending. But if the God of Love accidentally makes a joke with you, then you may have twists and turns on the road of feelings, and in the end you may be inhumane and waste your time, youth and sincerity.
For a woman, before deciding to marry a man, it is not only necessary to have a comprehensive understanding of the man’s character and personality. More importantly, you must have a general familiarity with the family you want to marry. After all, love is a matter for two people, and marriage will involve two families.
If a woman cannot live a comfortable life in her in-laws, her life after marriage can be said to be difficult. In order to avoid such misfortunes, women must think twice before marrying, and do not act blindly and impulsively, lest they make some regretful decisions.
Xiaoli and her fiance were planning to get married, but it was because Xiaoli went to her future husband’s house and lived for a while before she was lucky that she was not married. Otherwise, her married life would be unimaginable, and she would also Live in pain.
When Xiaoli met her parents when she went to her fiance’s house for the first time, her mother-in-law asked them whether she wanted to prepare one room or two rooms. The fiance replied directly: "It's fine if we live in the same room." At the time, Xiaoli didn't think this was wrong. After all, the two had already regarded each other as their future partner, and the marriage was also true. Sooner or later, there is nothing to hide about two people living together.
However, Xiaoli did not think of her naive idea, but she left a big hidden danger for her reputation in her husband's house. It was precisely because of this incident that her marriage was directly caused, and it ended before it started.
Xiaoli has been hearing all kinds of gossips from neighbors outside the neighborhood during her stay for a few days, and once heard her mother-in-law and her neighbors talk.
"How can I look down on this woman, I always think she is a casual woman. Do you see any serious woman who lives with a man casually before she gets married? I don't know my son likes it. What about this woman, I'm really afraid that he will do some bad things to my son after getting married. It's really nerve-wracking."
Xiaoli heard her mother-in-law say this, she felt very wronged in her heart, but she She also didn't show her dissatisfaction. During the past few days, she could clearly feel that the prospective mother-in-law didn't like herself.
Although Xiaoli feels uncomfortable in her heart, she still tells herself that the person she is going to marry is not her mother-in-law, and she will not live with her mother-in-law in the future, so these things will be patient for the time being.
But what made Xiaoli really unbearable was that when the parents of both parties went out for dinner, her mother-in-law still showed no face to herself, chewing her tongue in front of her parents and exposing her shortcomings.
"You ask my son for the bride price. I and his dad will not participate. He will give you as much as he wants. We have no opinion."
"To be honest, I don't like your daughter. After all, which one A serious daughter will live with a man before she gets married, but your daughter insists on marrying my son, and I can’t stop it.” When
heard the mother-in-law mocking herself like this, Xiaoli's face was flushed, especially when she Xiaoli felt very chilling when she said these things in front of her parents. Looking at her fiance's indifferent appearance, Xiaoli instantly decided that she could not marry this marriage, otherwise she would definitely be angry with her mother-in-law in the future, and her husband would not help herself.
In order to prevent the mother-in-law from saying nasty things to her parents, Xiaoli immediately slammed her chopsticks and stood up and said loudly: "Enough is enough, don’t say it anymore. From the first day I went to your house, you just watch I’m not pleasing to my eyes, even to the neighbours’ various kinds of damage to my reputationForget it. Today you are like this in front of my parents. It is too much. I will not marry. Whoever loves to marry will marry. You are really bullying! "Z2z
Xiaoli only realized after this incident: In fact, cohabitation is not the key. The key is that if others look down on yourself, you don't need to be too aggrieved, knowing that letting go is the greatest tolerance for yourself.
marriage requires both you and me, and you can stand behind him and give him strength when the other party needs his own encouragement and support. Instead of just avoiding and perfunctory when encountering problems. If Xiaoli When his mother’s fiancé was doing these excessive things, he was able to stand up to help Xiaoli and believe that this marriage will not end in a breakup.
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