What are the reasons for the long-term singleness of older young men?
is not simply because it is short, ugly, poor, you can find a lot of counterexamples to prove it. The real reason for
is more profound, and can be divided into three categories as a whole.
The first category, afraid of dating girls.
They have had fewer sisters since they were young, and they almost never sat at the same table with girls when they were in school, let alone be friends with girls. When naughty and cheating on exams, they would be reported by girls and hate girls even more. When
grew up and started working, there were very few girls around. They were used to not interacting with girls, so letting them chase girls is no different from chasing aliens.
They just want to have a woman willing to give birth to me. Then I should play games and play games, and drink and drink with my brother.
But in reality, there is no such good thing, love needs to be carefully cultivated and cared for. The sentence of a woman's heart in the bottom of the sea will make this kind of boys all difficult.
second category, too responsible.
Their view of love is very traditional. They feel that holding hands is a lifetime, waiting for the girls they like to appear all day long.
But when this girl really appeared, he started to retreat from inferiority again. He felt that all aspects of his conditions were not ready yet, and he felt that he was not worthy of her and could not give her happiness.
And these boys are also glass hearts. Once they can't catch it, they can't stand it. They hurt themselves the most, so they choose to continue to wait and see and withdraw.
is like a person going to buy a lottery ticket. If you win a lottery, you worry about the money and don't know how to spend it. The third category of
lacks purpose.
Ordinary boys chase girls, always looking forward to confirming the relationship earlier, so they try their best to use their routines to heat up the relationship.
But these boys are too dependent on letting the flow go. They feel that things between men and women are natural, and feel that girls are more anxious than you. In this way,
not only wastes a lot of opportunities, but it turns out that this part of the boys is quite wrong. Everyone thinks that he has a girlfriend, maybe even a scumbag.
The fact is that only he himself understands his helplessness and difficulties.
Generally speaking, some are historical and environmental reasons, some are psychological and character reasons, and some are execution reasons and method reasons.
You can compare your own situation and solve these problems. Only the boys who have been single for a long time can open the door to leave the single.
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