"Brothers are like hands and feet, and women are like clothes." This sentence of
was originally used by Liu Bei to express his brother's position in his mind.
But if a man uttered this sentence now, thousands of women would definitely be ashamed. why?
No reason, just rely on you to eat and live with your wife for the rest of your life, but you only play the role of clothes, and you lose them when you break them. Who is willing to be your wife?
But there is such a kind of man in life. Brotherhood is more important than anything else. If there is a conflict between love and brothers, they will definitely choose the latter.
In emotion, what should I do when I meet such a man who values his brothers?
1. Choosing between brothers and love
Netizen Guoguo met such a man. She said that when her boyfriend was dating, he had clearly expressed to her that he had eight good brothers and his relationship was particularly good.
If they want their love to blossom, Guoguo must integrate into the circle of their brothers. In case of conflict, he will defend his brother first.
Guoguo felt that this man was pretty good at first, so loving and righteous! However, many things happened later that made her feel that it was not what she thought, because his brother Guoguo suffered all kinds of wrongs. The most important thing about
is that she has been wronged, and she can't say that his brother is not the case, because from the very beginning, he has stated his position.
If she is not happy, it means that their relationship will be shattered.
For this, she endured and endured it, but until one night she had a stomachache and he was still playing outside with his brother, she didn't realize that such a man might be more suitable for being friends.
as a lover is completely unqualified.
2. Can not choose as long as the brother of the man
is in love, he even abandoned you for the brother. Who knows if he will get worse after getting married?
If there are children between two people, there will be more friction, and he will give his time to his brother, then the problems and challenges will be even greater.
is not to say that brotherly men are bad, but everything is measured.
If a man, in front of you, facing the matter of his brother, he will never know how to make concessions or even make compromises. What is the most important thing about
, he also threatened that brotherhood is more important than everything. If there is a dispute with his brother, he will choose his brother regardless of reason.
Such a man, even if he likes it again, he cannot be with him, otherwise after marriage, your tears will only increase.
3. A man with only brothers in his eyes has little time for you
Some men may not understand why we women care so much. Who is more important between us and his brothers? In addition to self-esteem,
is actually very important, because we understand that the more time he spends there, the less time he spends here.
And I think companionship is the best expression of emotion.
He is not willing to spend time with us, so how about love? Instead of choosing such a man and being alone for a long time, it is better to be a high-quality single being more pleasant.