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In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, we will have secrets that belong only to ourselves. It is best not to tell anyone about these things. Even if others ask, you can choose to avoid it. Some words will only cause you trouble when they are said out.
chatted with a reader not long ago, she was very entangled. She said that her boyfriend asked about her ex. She didn't know whether she should confess to her current boyfriend. She said that she liked her current boyfriend very much, and she was afraid that if she didn't say anything, her current boyfriend would leave her. But if he said it, he was afraid of caress.
Actually, this female reader lost her square because she loved this man too much. Women must remember: There are some things, don’t talk to men.
Regarding this female reader, she should choose not to talk about it. Finally, I also gave her advice. I said that if a man really loves you, he should not ask such questions. So, don't answer, if he really understands, he will understand you. And if you have grievances, it will always break out and may leave you.
And if this is the case, then leaving such a man is not worth regrets. She said later that she would think again. Later, I did not hear from her, nor did I know how she handled it.
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Actually, there are many similar things. In the relationship, there are some things that we don’t actually need to say. Just like the female reader mentioned above. If you are a smart woman, you can say: "Then you tell me about you and your ex-girlfriend first. Then we will be fair." Just a simple sentence like this will make the man not embarrassed to say anything.
Who hasn't passed? If a person cares about the other's past, then this person is not worth your effort, it is better to leave as soon as possible.
When two people are together, look forward. What's the point of living in the future without thinking about prying into the past of others? People who do it this way have little thoughts, and such people are not really loved. Feelings are not allowed to falsify. A person is really not sincere to a person, time will give the answer. But even so, we have to be mindful of ourselves. If you feel that the other person does not love you, you must make a choice.
When dealing with feelings, don’t procrastinate. Long-term pain is worse than short-term pain. Sometimes it’s better to be decisive, but it’s good for each other. Love is love, not love is not love. There are not so many whys.
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For women, don’t put their happiness on men. Don't be so stupid, tell a man everything.
As the saying goes: "The heart is separated from the belly." No matter how good the relationship between two people is, there are still some things not to be said. Some things still have to be hidden. Don't talk forever. In fact, this is responsible for oneself and the other side. And men who really know you and love you know this truth. Therefore, they would never come to ask you such words.
Regardless of whether a man asks or not, as a woman, you must know in your heart. Don't be a fool, be smart. All things said, just a fool. Such a woman, men will not cherish you. Regardless of whether it is a man or a woman, sometimes a little "careful" is needed.
People always have to be a little bit "selfish", and only if they live well can they give to others. In the world of emotions, people who love too deeply and love wholeheartedly are the most taboo. Such a person, once experiencing emotional changes, it is difficult to get out, and it is also the most injured.
loves someone, it takes seven points. This is the biggest, the most true love. Keep the rest for yourself.
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