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. Love and matter have always been the topic of constant debate among young men and women. Some people say that if two people are rushing to get married, of course, there must be love as the basis, otherwise there is no love marriage. Too much material will not be happy.
Some people say that just listen to the thing about love. The reality is very realistic. There is no material, so what can you talk about love? Is it just a mouthful to say sweet words? Too fictitious, you know, in this society, money is money when you go out, and it is hard to move without money.
Some people say that the happy life of mankind is based on "material" and love is the food. Therefore, love and material must exist at the same time, so as to be considered a good marriage.
Shakespeare said: "Z6z There are a thousand Hamlet in the eyes of a thousand people." Everyone has a different view of love and materiality, but there is one thing we have to admit, that is, people's pursuit of materiality is far higher than the pursuit of love.
For example, the issue of "high-priced beauties" is constantly discussed and angry, and even complains that families who want high-priced gifts are not really marrying their daughters, but selling their daughters. They have to empty the man’s home. Willingly, such a marriage bought with money, can two people be happy?
In addition to high-priced gifts, houses are also a pain point for people. You must know that many people who are ready to get married are blocked by "houses". The meaning of the woman's parents is often just one sentence: You can have nothing Car, but you can’t do without a house. Where does my daughter live with you? After going around
, you will find that the house and high-priced gifts are all related to money. A friend said before that if China does not have high-priced gifts or high-priced houses, the gifts are based on the man’s family conditions, and the house is determined according to the local average consumption level, and people’s happiness will increase, and they will never again. There are a large number of people who cannot afford to marry, bachelor and DINK.
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Objectively speaking, both of love and matter are very important. It is not good to have love and no matter. Only matter without love is also not good. The probability of these two coming at the same time is very small. There is always one coming first. Either love comes first, or matter.
But which is more important depends on how you choose. Your choice determines the answer you want. It also means that your choice at determines what kind of person you are. For example, some people are innocent and only have love in their eyes. Material will work hard with the person they like, while some people tend to be selfish and only consider material things. If there is love, it will be the icing on the cake.
think about it carefully, man is a very strange animal. In Mencius’s "Fish What I Want", there is a saying: " fish, what I want is also what I want, and bear's paw is also what I want; neither is available. Also, those who give up fish and take bear's paw are also ". The core of this sentence is actually the word "choice", which emphasizes that when fish and bear's paw cannot have both, how would you choose?
When we apply this sentence to "material and love", it is equivalent to making a trade-off, but some people want both, but the scarcity is more expensive, and everyone wants to have good things. The less cherished the easily obtained, the rarer, the more precious its value.
In short, whether you choose love or material things, as long as you don't regret it, even if the ending is bad, it's worth it. To be afraid is to be afraid. When you have love, you want material, and when you have material, you want love. Just like people who are looking for a partner, or who are not high or low.
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We can be happy if we share the same joys and sorrows.
There will be many ups and downs in people’s life. Those who can accompany you to share the joys and sorrows and never leave, are the ones who are truly worthy of your life to protect. However, people nowadays are very impetuous. There is very little that can be done.
all hold the attitude of "Z6z husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and the catastrophe is about to fly to ". When facing difficulties and dangers, all they think about are themselves, and they think about love or not. If you want to choose, so Choose the substance.
Li Guoqing, the founder of Dangdang.com last year, announced his divorce from Yu Yu on Weibo. After the divorce, Li Guoqing and Yu Yu were in love. I believe that Li Guoqing and Yu Yu had been in love before they got married. After the ups and downs, the two people opposedEnmity.
Therefore, it is really not easy to share joys and sorrows. It tests human nature and even more emotions.
Moreover, the current feelings have become the most expensive luxury items for young people. They say that feelings cannot be measured by money, but on the road to happiness, money is everywhere, and transactions are formed without knowing it. (You take feelings, I take matter, and I trade matter for your feelings for me).
So, if it were you, love and materiality, how would you choose?
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