emotions are flowers awakened in memory, blooming silently in the night of the soul.
In today's society, there are such people with low incomes but high quality of life. They are neither rich second generation nor demolished at home, let alone any minerals, but these do not affect their pursuit of life.
In the eyes of these people, they may not have a high starting point, but the pace of life must be high, otherwise they will be owed by life. They would rather become car slaves, house slaves, car slaves, than give up the pursuit of high-quality life. They are in line with the saying "If you want to be prominent, you have to suffer here." In society, such people are called exquisite poor .
When the Phoenix man encountered exquisite poverty, the hard struggle history was immediately staged. There is a saying that "poverty limits people's imagination". In fact, sometimes poverty limits not only people's imagination, but also people's life Cognition and understanding. The appearance of
Phoenix male is the most typical example. They were born ordinary, and rely on their own hard work to get out of their poverty-stricken life, become the pride of the whole village, and the support of everyone in the family.
But don't think that even if you are successful out of poverty, it is difficult to change the imprisonment of your mind. Especially those exquisite and poor Phoenix men living in big cities basically have the following three characteristics, and these characteristics are exactly what many women hate. No matter how good the individual is, it is difficult to touch a woman's heart.
likes to hit swollen faces and fill up fat people.
has nothing to do and pretends to be strong and self-righteous. This is the most obvious characteristic of a delicate and poor Phoenix man. In fact, they are not willing to do this, mainly because of the influence of the original family. Phoenix men’s native families are mostly families with poorer economic conditions, and there are more brothers and sisters, and the family burden is heavier. They grew up in such a living environment, and their desire for material things far exceeded those of those families. Superior person.
Even if they change the status quo of life through their own efforts, and some are still settled in big cities, it is difficult to change the values that they have formed since childhood. In order to prove that they are mixing well, and to reassure their family members, they often do things like swollen faces and fattened people.
, especially in front of relatives and friends, has to pretend to be a successful person. Life is like a play, it all depends on acting, so I believe it is true. I'm afraid that the play will not end well after the performance, because any pretense needs to pay a price.
Concepts are conservative and care about
Phoenix males live in a metropolis, but their ideas and concepts remain in the place where they were born. This also prevents their thinking from progressing, and they, who have grown accustomed to being poor, especially love to care about things. Especially when it comes to money, money is more important than anything else.
They would rather spend money to pack themselves and pack their lives, because these are for outsiders, and they are not willing to spend a penny more for their women. Falling in love with such a man, women will not get any benefit. Yes, I’m afraid it’s a waste to buy an ice cream on the street.
never denies that thrift is a virtue, but too much thrift becomes stingy. Money can only reflect its greatest value when it is spent in useful places. Phoenix males lacked this knowledge because they were born in poverty. Although their bodies were left in modern metropolises, their concepts remained in the early days of liberation, and their machismo thoughts remained in their bones. They believed that women should listen to men and report to them for every penny spent. .
Except for the expenses of eating normally at home, all other expenses are wasted, thoroughly carrying forward the glorious tradition at home. The most important point is that they don't think that their ideas and practices are wrong, but instead think that all of them are reasonable. If you want to argue with Phoenix male on this issue, there may never be results.
has a strong family concept, but is always foolish and filial. The biggest advantage of
Phoenix male is that he has a strong family concept, especially family care. As long as it is needed by the family and the family needs, he will desperately rush to the forefront to prove that he is the most promising person in this family. It’s just that the family doesn’t know that under the exquisite and poor packaging, there is only a lonely word "poor".
treats parents even more according to their opinions. As long as parents have needs, they follow their opinions completely, and whether right or wrong, it is obviously foolish and filial. In their minds, women have no homeIn court status, you must listen to the man on everything, and also listen to the man’s mother. To be a wife to such a man is tantamount to returning to feudal society all at once, and living a life that will never rise. The life of
Phoenix male can definitely be said to be a successful counterattack, but their counterattack is not the mind but the body. Knowledge has changed their destiny, but it has not changed the impact of their original family. The exquisite and poor life is already very hard, coupled with the Phoenix male's personality, I am afraid that the future will be even more sad.
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