"Red Rose and White Rose": Two women in a man's life, whoever marries is a pity

Tong Zhenbao has 2 women in his life. The first is Wang Jiaorui, the married man. Jiaorui is innocent and warm. He divorced her husband, but Zhenbao did not want to marry him. The second is his wife Meng Yanli. His wife Zhenjing is boring, even "husband and wife". "Sports" are lazy, but Zhenbao is unable to divorce. One is a red rose and the other is a white rose. It is wrong to choose anyone.

Zhang Ailing’s short story "Red Roses and White Roses" really writes the ideals of men towards women to the extreme. Even today, it is still outdated. The book

says, "Every man has had two women like this, at least two. Marrying a red rose, over time, the red one changed to a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still the moonlight before the bed; married Bai Rose, the white one is a sticky rice stick on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart."

Tong Zhenbao is probably the representative of Chinese men. He was born in poverty, but he was very hardworking. He relied on his own efforts to return to work in a big company. He was dedicated to his relatives and his friends. He was a gentleman.

is such a gentleman, but he can't escape the secret desires of a man in his heart.

He rented in his classmate’s house. The classmate had an innocent and warm wife named Jiaorui. Jiaorui took the initiative to approach him, and he failed to restrain himself, so the two secretly got together.

Jiaorui only understood what love is after she followed Zhenbao. She was willing to divorce for him, but Zhenbao flinched. It is impossible for him to marry a divorced woman, let alone the wife of a classmate.

So Zhenbao escaped.

Zhenbao and Meng Yanli got married through a blind date. Yanli is a wife who likes to be quiet, and even her husband and wife life is very lazy. In Zhenbao's eyes, she is boring.

, but eight years in a flash, they have a daughter together, and life is just as usual. It's just that Zhenbao doesn't care about this home more and more, and his wife secretly has an affair with the little tailor in the suffocating atmosphere.

Zhenbao was very angry, but he did not divorce.

Maybe, he sees himself thoroughly, what he needs is a nominally good wife and mother, afraid that he will respect and depend on him and dare not control his wife, his heart is missing Jiaorui, but he also knows Jiaori Won't belong to him anymore.

"Red Rose and White Rose", Jiaorui is the red rose, and the smoke bird is the white rose, but after all, it is wrong to marry anyone, because in the world of men, the best is not what you can get. The lyrics of

also say, "What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear." For men, the women who can't get are white moonlight and cinnabar moles, but what they get is mosquito blood and rice stickiness. child.

Therefore, this world has so many stories about encountering and resurrecting first love decades later.

In fact, men have been surging in their hearts, not their old lovers, but their own youthful grace in the past years. They can't forget their youth and impulse, and they always feel that he and she are the best at that time.

However, men, as well as women, must know that no matter how throbbing or loving you have been, if you lose it, don't worry about it anymore. Only cherishing the people in front of you is the best destination in your life. If

embraces the person in front of you and still thinks of the old lover in his heart, then it is destined that the two people in the marriage will both be sad.