Why a noisy marriage can grow old

Wen: Yu'er

once saw a passage like this: Anyone who only cares about falling in love will finally fall apart, and those who live together in a group come to the end.

Actually, almost everyone of us has similar marriages. When I was young, I often heard parents quarreling. In the end, my dad would go to coax my mom and make my mother happy. Their marriage once made me fearful of marriage. My parents had divorced when I was a teenager. In the end, they did not separate. The two people are now old and know that they feel sorry for each other. Either of them is ill. My daughter, my daughter, cannot go back to take care of them often because of work reasons. Both of them take care of each other. The two people who used to quarrel with each other are still with each other. Z1z

is probably like this between husband and wife! Dislike each other, but also feel sorry for each other when the other is unwell.

This year due to the epidemic, many people spent the first half of the year at home. The two were together day and night. We can often see on Douyin that the couple quarreled again. It didn't take long after the quarrel was actually reconciled.

Even in a loving couple, there are countless times in their lives trying to choke each other to death. When you hate, you really hate this person, and when you love, you really love this person. Love finally became family affection. Just like the left hand and the right hand, the left ear and the right ear, no matter which one is missing, it will feel uncomfortable.

My grandpa and grandma, I heard from my mother that when they were young, they often quarreled because of family trivial matters. Therefore, after marriage, they will become a little bit of a feather in their beautiful relationships. The sincere feelings will also Changes have taken place because of the baptism of marriage. When grandpa and grandma are older, they no longer have the arrogance they had when they were young. They understand that they are considerate and tolerant of each other. Perhaps, only when people reach a certain age will they converge on their once invincible lives, and become aware of life and cherish their surroundings. people. When grandfather

passed away, grandma was sluggish and took her hand and said: Why don’t you quarrel with me? You are gone, I am the only one left...

actually. There are many couples around us who remarried after the divorce, because after they experienced the divorce, they found that they would still miss each other. After all, after more than ten years of living, even if they treat a pet and suddenly disappear, it will be very sad. There are also many second-married people. Most second-married people sigh: In fact, conflicts and quarrels will occur with anyone who gets married, but now that they are age, they also know how to tolerate. Z1z

may be noisy, it is the normal state of marriage! The teeth will sometimes bite the tongue.

Marriage itself is the joy of youth, the boredom of middle age, the dependence of old age, young and affection can go to each other to look at each other, but in the end it is still accompanied to old age.