Love seems to be a very strange thing to many people. For example, two people are together and outsiders look particularly good, but the two people separate silently. However, two people who often quarreled, beaten and scolded in daily life, have "gone for a long time" under the temper of time.
Many people don’t believe in love at first sight. Instead, they hope to have a long relationship with the two people they like. After all, at first sight he sees your appearance, your body and a certain character that you leak; and two people are in love. Love together for a long time is the fusion of two souls.
So in our daily life, if you like the other party, how should we "get in love" with your significant other?
Actually, if you want to "get in love" with someone who has grown from nothing, from strangers to familiar, you only need to master these three small skills.
Tip 1: Accompany
in thousands of worlds, it is a pale dog and white cloud, so everyone is lonely. But "people" are group animals, so they all yearn for warmth and company. The same is true for
, the companionship will allow each other to touch the sparks of love when they are away. Not only that, but companionship is also equivalent to "life habits." In fact, companionship means getting the other party to get used to you.
We must understand that if a person develops a certain lifestyle, it is difficult to change it. This feeling is like playing a game, and it is addictive. And this "addiction" is the foundation of long-term love.
After many of our relatives saw the uncle and aunt (called after marriage) together, many people were not optimistic about the two of them, thinking that they would not be together for long. When uncle
and aunt met, one was divorced and the other was single because they worked together.
At that time, my uncle was working in a factory, while my aunt and my uncle were in the same factory. When two people are together, the uncle seldom goes out and rarely buys daily necessities. Many times the aunt helps the uncle to buy it (every time the aunt buys it, he will bring some for the uncle), and the place where the uncle lives is too lazy to clean up every home It was all dirty inside. Every time my aunt came, I would help my uncle to clean it up, and it was all clean when I left.
So the aunt has been tidying up for a long time, and the uncle is not embarrassed, so she invites her to eat with this excuse. One is to thank her for helping him. Secondly, the uncle also has a little affection for her aunt.
Technique 2: Understanding and tolerance
After all, there will be a lot of unpleasantness when two people are together. With so many feelings as a foundation, the next two people together is a good beginning. After that, the aunt will give a lot of food. Fruit to uncle. The uncle also heard a lot of compliments to his aunt from the surrounding colleagues.
is also very important in China, so the uncle sometimes brings a little surprise to the aunt, and also thank the aunt for taking care of herself during this time.
For the first time in nearly 40 years, my uncle feels that women who are not relatives take care of him. Therefore, the uncle himself gradually warmed up his feelings for his aunt in his heart.
And the aunt's view of her uncle has also changed a lot: the previous sloppy changes to romance and gentleman.
Although the two people care about each other very much in their hearts at this time, the two have not broken this "veil". And the two people continued to maintain this polite distance, and neither of them wanted to break this beauty.
After the son of the last aunt who went to college came back, he saw his mother treat a man he didn't know, and he knew what was going on. Then I went to do ideological work with my uncle. It was the uncle who let go of the worries in his heart and took the initiative to confess with the current aunt.
Skill 3: Know how to be proactive
In many cases, when we all have feelings for each other, we are afraid to take the last step, so we miss the happiness.
No matter what kind of emotion you are in, you always have to take the initiative to reach a conclusion. If they are cowardly, it is very likely that the relationship between each other can only stop at friends.
The emotion of "giving love for a long time" is what everyone expects, but very few people want to dare to take the last step. Therefore, if you want to keep the person who has been in love with you for a long time, you need to take a brave step, And then say aloud the love in my heart.
Message:
The old saying goes: "Knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, I tend to walk towards the tiger mountains." Those who want to get their love must lower themselves and enter his heart, know him, understand him, understand him, and know him. Leave an irreplaceable position in his heart.
People are all sentimental in front of their emotions. Whoever treats us well and who silently waits for ourselves is actually very clear in our hearts.
Therefore, if you want to "get in love with someone for a long time", please forget about ourselves. Use your time to wait, use your tolerance to understand and tolerate, and use your peace of mind to confess.
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