When a man and woman fall in love and decide to live with each other and raise children for the rest of their lives, the two will choose to marry to form a new family. At the beginning, the marriage system was a symbol of social wealth. Those with wealth would choose to marry, and then ensure that their wealth can be inherited by their offspring. With the accumulation of wealth in human society, the marriage system gradually became popular, but there are also marriages. There will be divorce, and divorce is a natural thing when couples are in disharmony.
In ancient times, divorce between husband and wife was rare. Even if there were conflicts, they would endure it. It was not until modern society that the divorce rate between husband and wife gradually increased. The divorce rate in developed countries such as the United States, Japan, the United Kingdom, and Denmark Ranked in the forefront of the world, there are even more people divorcing in the United States every year than those who get married. The divorce rate in China has been getting higher and higher in recent years. It seems that divorce has become a world trend. But in this context, the world There is still a country that insists on not divorcing, and it is still a developed country whose economic level is comparable to that of the United States. This country is Ireland
. After getting married in Ireland, you cannot divorce. You should also know this legend. The wedding is held here to promise that you will stick to love. Why can't Ireland divorce? Because Irish people are very devout Catholics, Catholics cannot divorce. They believe that marriages were presided over by priests and recognized by God. Both men and women must maintain absolute loyalty to the marriage, but this does not seem to be clean. Nor is it friendly.
Even if a couple is in a good relationship when they get married, they will have to face many things after marriage, and it will inevitably cause great conflicts. When the conflicts accumulate to a certain level, they will definitely break out. If such a marriage has to go Isn't it difficult to maintain? Both husband and wife will feel uncomfortable. Another point is that if a person with personality defects in a marriage exposes his true face, commits cheating or even domestic violence, his partner cannot choose to divorce. How painful is this? Therefore, Ireland has also come up with remedies
1. Divorce is not allowed, but can be separated
. The Catholic Church stipulates that all couples who have already held a ceremony and have the truth of the husband and wife are sacramental marriages and cannot be divorced, but when both parties After the relationship does break down, you can separate. This is legal in the church.
2. You can choose the period of marriage
. When you get married in Ireland to go through the registration procedures, the staff will let you choose the number of years of marriage. Do you want to Choose one year, two years, five years, or ten and twenty years? After the time limit is selected, if the contract is not renewed at the time limit, the marriage will be automatically terminated. If you are determined to grow old with your partner, then you can choose one hundred years, and here, the longer the marriage period you choose, the lower the charge. If you choose one hundred years, you will be free, but if you choose one year , You have to listen to the teachings of the staff, they will criticize your attitude towards marriage is too trivial, and will give you a book about marriage, so that you can make a decision after reading it.
In addition to not allowing divorce, there is another very interesting custom in Ireland. We know that "cuckolding" in China means being cheated. People generally don't wear green on their heads, but in Ireland it is completely the opposite. They like green the most and wear green clothes the most, and of course they also wear green hats. They think green is a color full of vitality. In fact, the editor agrees with this point. Green itself is a very beautiful color and should not be related to words like cheating.
There are conflicts between couples who choose to divorce. Although this is a normal thing, I still hope that everyone can cherish marriage and know how to manage marriage. After all, when you first came together, you loved each other so much. Don’t just encounter problems. Think about avoiding, think about solving, otherwise no matter how many times you get married, there will be no good results in the end.
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