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met Wei'an 丨 met myself
Good night, good dream
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I like someone, but I can’t help showing off. I want everyone around me to know the existence of TA and want everyone’s blessing. Is not it?
In this fast-paced era, feelings seem to have become fast food.
More and more people have no patience to talk about a relationship that has lasted for a few years or more than a decade, but they are beginning to be enthusiastic about the fast food model of "confession in three days and bed in seven days".
My cousin asked me yesterday, how do you tell if a boy likes himself?
She just graduated this year and has a boyfriend who is in a stable relationship. The two have been together for more than half a year.
Because of the unique sensitivity of girls, I asked her if something happened. The light in her eyes dimmed instantly, she lowered her head and murmured: "I always feel that he does not love me so much. I have been together for so long. I have never seen his colleagues or friends, even "he It’s a child from a single-parent family. I was told by others. When I asked about it, he was still very angry. He said what happened to the single-parent family and asked me if I looked down on him. Z2z
In fact, I never had this idea, it was just his It makes me a little sad to conceal it, and I always feel that I am treated as an outsider.
, can you understand this feeling?" Of course I understand
. It seems that many girls have encountered such bad things, and finally met someone they like. People, after falling in love, can't wait to tell the world.
first ask all friends and girlfriends to help with palms and eyes, and then arrange all the photos of the lovers, mobile phone cases, and lovers' shoes. I can't wait to even make the drinking cups into lovers...
can the other party react? But it is always cold and indifferent.
You are your trouble, you desperately want to swear sovereignty, want to occupy a place in his life, but he did not react at all, even feel bored, keep saying that he needs private space, a word can push you far Far away.
remembered that my girlfriend once had a long-distance relationship, but until they broke up, no one around them knew they had been together. When
talks about it occasionally, my best friend always smiles bitterly, because in this long and short relationship, she has never experienced the feeling of being loved.
is not because of the torture of distance, but for more than a year, her sense of security has been absent. Every time
meets, when she proposes to invite his roommate to dinner, he always pokes his lips and says with a face of disdain, "It's just a relationship. Is it necessary to make everyone know?" It's not a glorious thing.
Even if two people are talking on the phone and someone asks "girlfriend?", he always denies, "No, no, just a school girl." The
best friend couldn’t understand why it was so difficult for him to admit his identity. It was not until after the breakup that she saw him introduce the new school sister to everyone at the class reunion, and she suddenly realized that— —Z2z
It's not that falling in love is not a glorious thing, but it is a shame to fall in love with you.
When a person does not enjoy this relationship subconsciously, he will do everything possible to hide it, not wanting to show it to others.
has heard a saying, every couple who is afraid of showing affection at has someone who is just a spare tire for each other. Although
cannot be said to be absolutely correct, if a person hides his family and friends even about the relationship, it can at least show that he has not invested much sincerely in the relationship.
If you are twitchy even when you are in a relationship and dare not show it to others, how can you expect him to hold your hand and enter into marriage with you?
Some people like to ask, what is it like to like someone?
Actually, it's really simple.
likes is that when you hear this question, what exactly appears in your mind is that person's appearance;
likes is when you think of the other person, your eyes flashes of happiness and sweetness that cannot be hidden;
likes is thinking I want to walk on the street hand in hand in a couple outfit with you, for fear that others may not know that you are a couple;
likes the moment when I look for you, my heartIt's all you, and no one else can squeeze in anymore;
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I often wonder, why do all sincere feelings need a marriage to prove it in the end?
is actually just an explanation of each other's feelings, but also to tell everyone around us: We have found a lover who can spend a lifetime together. These actions of
are enough to show that we are serious about this relationship.
Similarly, when falling in love, feelings also require some commitment and a sense of ritual. Introduce him generously to his friends around him. A sweet group photo and a circle of friends will make the relationship stronger. Far more important than saying 10,000 words "I love you". Like
, I can’t wait to prove to the world: we are really happy together.
When you can't feel the slightest warmth, initiative and care in a relationship, it may be because the other party really doesn't love you that much.
has a good saying: Where can I be born cold? It's just that I haven't met people I like enough.
wants to have a relationship, the kind everyone knows.
, dare you?
* about the author *
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