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In order to get closer to happiness, he ordered minoxidil.
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Today is Double Eleven. It is not only the National Day of Choosing Hands, but also a special day (Singles' Day) for Li Xinwei, the number one man in this article. He was born on November 11th 30 years ago. There is no choice in 's day. A proper bachelor prophesied . But we can now assume that if "11.11" Singles' Day had been made known to all 30 years ago, it is estimated that his mother would try to avoid this day when he gave birth. Androgenic alopecia (androgenic alopecia, AGA) is the most common type of progressive alopecia. Male patients typically show a decrease in hair density from the temporal regions on both sides, and gradually extend to the top of the head, and appear as hair The line recedes, and the forehead becomes higher, showing the shape of a horseshoe.
In my country, the prevalence of androgenetic alopecia is about 21.3% in men and 6.0% in women. The current treatments for AGA are mainly minoxidil and finasteride, but the adverse effects of finasteride include decreased libido, erectile dysfunction and gynecomastia.
Li Xinwei checked the relevant information of AGA on Zhinet, touched his "M"-shaped hairstyle, and decisively started minoxidil liniment in a certain treasure. The girl who had just dated him thought he had thinning hair, which made him suffer a lot of stimulation.
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, Li Xinwei, who is 167cm tall and less than 120 kg, looks thin and small. He had no advantage in his family genes, and he didn't work hard since he was a child. He knew this for a long time.
However, he loves to read, and with a good score in the college entrance examination, he was admitted to a well-known medical school to study nursing. After graduating from the bachelor's degree, he was admitted to a local tertiary hospital, and finally settled in the ICU.
After graduation, due to a long-distance relationship, the first girlfriend on campus and Li Xinwei are on separate sides. He can't forget this deep relationship, and can only devote his time and energy to busy work to reduce the memory of his first love. This busyness lasts for 3 years.
Whether he is busy with work or forgetting his first love, Li Xinwei's lifelong event was put on hold. By the age of 27, there is no movement. At this age, he should have carried a child in the countryside. His parents began to worry about him and frequently instilled him the necessity of starting a family. When he was old, he should get married and have children. This is a must for a person to go through a lifetime. road.
At first, Li Xinwei disapproved, scornful of this traditional thinking, and often responded to his parents, "Why do you have to get married?" "Many people in their 40s are not married."
But as time passed, he gradually walked out of the circle of first love. Whenever he was alone at night, the air was full of loneliness, and he began to feel that his parents’ words were not unreasonable. Isn’t the whole life like this ordinary? And this kind of experience of doing things at what age is precisely the most precious thing in a short life.
Thinking of this, Li Xinwei began to truly face the reality of being single, and also began to think of ways to end being single.
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27 years old is the age of marriage for men in a city, and they can still choose their favorite objects in the marriage and love market. What kind of object should
choose? There are a few bars in his heart. After several years of work, Li Xinwei feels the hard work of being a nurse, and his income is not high, so he will have one night shift in three to five days. Every time when I went to the cafeteria for a meal, most of the clinical nurses with no makeup were basically dull or yellowish, with freckles, dark circles and bags under the eyes. He set the first hard condition: not looking for peers. As a nurse, always feels that nurses work long hours and are too hard. If both of them are engaged in clinical work, parents and children will definitely not be able to control them in the future.
The second is to have three views, a cheerful personality, a love of life, and a foresight. He likes the neighbor-friendly type and dislikes those girls who are materialistic and materialistic and have bad habits. It is almost enough to meet these conditions. My own family and external conditions are not very good. Blind date and job hunting are two-way choices. The more conditions and the smaller the scope, the lower the chance of success.
Li Xinwei stepped outThe first step in deleting and selecting objects is that all I contacted are from the medical circle. There is no network resource to get to know girls, and I can only accept introductions from relatives and friends around me and move towards the blind date army.
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's first blind date was introduced by her aunt. She was a girl who worked in a state-owned enterprise and was 2 years younger than Li Xinwei. After reading the information, I found that the other party was quite suitable, so I agreed to meet at a coffee shop at 11 noon.
was a little nervous when seeing a girl for the first time. Li Xinwei dressed well and waited in that cafe early. With 3 cups of water, the girl appeared. He handed over the menu to ask the girl to order, and while looking at his watch, the pointer showed 11:32. was 32 minutes late, but the girl didn't apologize or explain.
Li Xinwei has already lowered the impression of girls a lot. He doesn't like people who are late. Punctuality is a basic and important etiquette and quality, and it is also an important thing like blind dates. Despite this, Li Xinwei remained calm, chatting with the girls and understanding each other's situation. It may be that the girl's lateness gave him a bad impression, and he was not nervous anymore, and talked about work and his mate selection conditions. One hour later, the lunch ended on the initiative of the girl. The two walked out of the cafe and went home.
Later, my aunt called to ask about the progress. Li Xinwei said that the girl was half an hour late without an explanation. He didn't like people who were not on time. My aunt said that the girls thought that he always talked about work matters, which was not interesting.
's first blind date ended in failure.
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For the first time, Li Xinwei no longer feels how stressful and embarrassing it is to have a blind date. So make persistent efforts and continue to delete and select potential targets. The average dating frequency is 3-4 people/month, and the blind date is basically one-sided. Either you are dissatisfied with the other party's heavy makeup, or care about whether the words are not speculative, disagreeable, or the other party values material conditions too much, so you can just mention the size of the house and where to go for your honeymoon.
At work, Li Xinwei's burden began to heavier. Because he graduated with a full-time undergraduate degree, the head nurse thinks that his professional knowledge is more systematic and solid, and arranges him to participate in many departments including scientific research.
Also, wears a disposable hat every day (the scalp will be very oily and affects the hair quality if worn for a long time), combined with various night shifts that can’t be moved, and after get off work, you must check literature and write bids in front of the computer after work ...Although is not young Great, Li Xinwei felt that his physical function was significantly reduced -every day I took a bath and got up in the morning and found that my hair fell more.
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Thinking that the men in his father's family basically cannot escape the fate of the "Mediterranean", Li Xinwei speeds up the blind date slightly, and lowers the conditions for choosing a spouse in his heart, for fear that the hair will fall more and the object will become more and more difficult. Find.
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is the New Year again in a blink of an eye. Relatives and friends are concerned about Li Xinwei's marriage and love situation. He honestly said that when he was in contact with the girls, his uncle said that just find a similar one, don't be too picky.
Li Xinwei thought, marriage is a lifetime thing, two people have to get along for decades, how can you choose one at random. However, he also understands the concerns of the elders, and he is about to meet 30 people, but he is still looking for it, can they not worry about it. But he knew exactly what he wanted. Z1z
years later, my colleague introduced Li Xinwei to an elementary school teacher. He thought everything was good, so he met at a Cantonese restaurant. Li Xinwei learned the lessons from dozens of previous blind dates. He talked less about work and more about hobbies and common topics. The two talked quite speculatively. At the checkout, the female teacher Let's talk about AA. This made Li Xinwei's affection for her immediately increased, although he did not let the girls pay. A few days after
, the two continued to chat on WeChat. He felt that the female teacher had less words, and there was no time to make an appointment with her. Li Xinwei thought it might be busy. It was still the same after
a few days later, Li Xinwei went to ask his colleagues to inquire about the other party. The colleague said tactfully: "The other party thinks that you are a little shorter and feel insecure. She wants to find a boy over 177cm."
Li Xinwei's heart is cold again: the fact that the altitude is not high is a fact that I cannot change, what can I do?
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Day after day, Li Xinwei started an intensified chase with age and hairline. He muttered in his heart: All said that medical staff is easy to findElephant, why am I so hard? Blind date 50 times or bachelor, sad reminder!
He once again lowered the conditions for choosing a spouse in his heart. He felt that the nurse would be a good partner, and would be more considerate of his work. The success rate might be higher, but the premise still depends on the personality of the two.
Many achievements in scientific research have made Li Xinwei a sense of accomplishment in his work. He divides his free time into two parts: on the one hand, he devotes his energy to scientific research, while continuing to go on blind date one by one. Unfortunately, it has not been smooth. Either he thinks girls are unpleasant, or girls think he is not. high. There are other girls from
, as soon as they heard that he was a male nurse, they refused, and they were not even given a chance to meet. Undergraduate male nurses are not as popular as college students in clinical medicine. In their eyes, no matter what your education is, you are a nurse. Doctors earn more than you and are more respected than you. Male doctors are sweet and delicious, even if they look bad, they are still robbed, but the love and marriage of male nurses is hard to say.
Until the 76th blind date, Li Xinwei lowered his head to drink soup for a moment, the girl suddenly said: Ah, you have so little hair, I am afraid that it will affect the next generation. Li Xinwei smiled awkwardly and politely, explaining that he was busy and stressful at work, and used the professional literature he had seen as a last resort: "If you are bald, it will be okay to have a daughter." Then there is no more.
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After returning home, Li Xinwei carefully looked at himself in the mirror, and then turned on the computer to check the hair loss information on Zhinet. In order to get closer to happiness, he placed an order with Minoxidil.
is on double eleven. When other colleagues around me are enjoying the pleasure of emptying the shopping cart, Li Xinwei only bought minoxidil as his 30th birthday present.
A month has passed, and his hair has not grown much, but Li Xinwei’s blind date has never stopped. Tomorrow will usher in the 88th blind date in his life, and he hopes good luck will come this time.
Afterwords
As of the end of 2019, the total number of registered nurses nationwide has reached 4.45 million. According to incomplete statistics, the number of male nurses has steadily increased in recent years, reaching 125,000. The stability of the nursing team is improving, but they rarely care about their family life outside of work. The issue of emotional marriage and love in this young nursing team deserves attention and research. , Especially the relationship between male nurses. After some male nurses enter the clinic, they often think that nurses are a waiter profession and have low social status due to traditional social concepts. Faced with problems such as difficulty in finding a partner and low income in marriage and love, the professional mentality is unstable. Improving the professional status of nurses is probably the fundamental way to retain male nurses. Editor in charge of
| Su Xuan Xiaomai
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