"Daughter-in-law, don't get divorced. Although my son betrayed his marriage, I promise he still loves you."

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When facing the same problem, different people may adopt the same attitude, or they may adopt completely opposite attitudes.

This in turn shows that many problems are not only treated in one way, not only one solution. Moreover, many things in life often have such a situation: in addition to solving the problem positively and solving the problem negatively , There is another attitude, which is between positive and negative, which is a pending state.

For example, Xiaoqi talked to a few other friends in the group some time ago. "After a man betrays his marriage, if he still loves you, what will you do?" She said that she wanted to hear other people's attitudes, so there was Many people have clearly stated their attitudes. Two of them have relatively clear attitudes. Let's take a look at them separately.

Woman A: If you betrayed, there will be no love, divorce!

"I think the question you asked is contradictory. Men have already betrayed their marriage. Where else is the love? Wouldn't you tell me that after a man betrays his marriage, he still loves his wife?

Anyway, I will never accept this fact. For me, a man has changed his heart and betrayed me. He just doesn’t love me. Since he doesn’t love me, why should I love him again? Divorce is the best thing for me. Choosing to live with him for a minute is a waste of life for me.

Everyone says that time is precious. In my opinion, women’s time is much more precious than men’s time, because women value youth and appearance, and shouldn’t waste too much time for a person who betrays him and divorce early. Only by marrying the right person can you be loved at the same age as a flower! "Z1z

Woman B: If you still love, please show me!

"My attitude may not be so extreme. I can accept the situation when a man betrays his marriage and says that he still loves his wife. However, this kind of thing can't just be said by the mouth, if you still love, please do it to me.

If there is no betrayal in the marriage, I don't have high requirements for love, as long as the man lives with me. However, after a man betrays his marriage and says he still loves me, I can’t let it go. I will make very high demands. If a man can do what I ask for, I will approve that he still loves me, otherwise, even my requirements will be met. No, if you betrayed me, you still can't do better to me. What kind of person still loves me? "Z1z

Xiaoqi: I verified it, but it turned out to be no love!

Xiaoqi asks this question because she has just experienced this experience. She has just divorced and her attitude is similar to that of woman B, but there are differences. The specific situation is this:

"I am married After being betrayed in Zhong, the person who said that he loved me was not my ex-husband, but my mother-in-law, "Daughter-in-law, don’t divorce. Although my son betrayed his marriage, I promise he still loves you!"

My ex-husband said this to my mother-in-law. After speaking, after the mother-in-law turned to ask him "right", he said that he still loved me.

I was furious and insisted on getting a divorce, but my mother-in-law went to my mother’s house to remove soldiers and asked my parents to do ideological work for me. At this time, I made another decision and said to my mother-in-law, "I can No divorce, but only temporarily. Since you said your son still loves me, then give him the next time. Does he really still love me? Time will tell me the answer and what he did will tell me Answer. Since you moved my parents to put pressure on me, then I will leave it alone. If it proves later that he still loves me, I can not divorce; but if it proves later that he does not love me, I must divorce. And let your son go out of the house, if you dare not make this bet, let me divorce now!" The mother-in-law of

firmly believes that her son will be able to repent and rehabilitate me and treat me well, but the result is different from what she thought. Trying hard to show that I still love me, but after all, it was deliberately based on not loving me. Naturally, I couldn’t be satisfied. In order to convince my mother-in-law, I kept a diary every day and gave evidence that he did not love me. List them all to save the time when the mother-in-law relies on debts when divorcing.

Now that I am divorced, I look back at the things before the divorce. I think it is impossible for a man to love his wife after he betrays his marriage. Even if he wants to love, he doesn't know how to love. For women, likeIf there is a way out, it is better to leave early! "Z1z

After a man betrays his marriage, does he still love his wife?"

Regarding the above three women’s question about "A man still loves his wife after betraying his marriage", I once talked to Xiaoqi’s ex-husband Azhong, Xiaoqi said Xiaoqi’s understanding, I want to hear Listen to what he thinks. He said at the time:

"I said I still love her after betraying my marriage, do you believe it?" I'm afraid no one will believe it, right? After all, everyone will say that you have betrayed your marriage, how can you say that you still love your wife! Although no one would believe

, but I still want to say that I still love her. It’s just that the love at this time is mixed with the betrayal and marriage, it seems meaningless. Not only can she not forget my betrayal, but I can’t forget it myself. She will not divorce me for the time being to test whether I still love her. , I knew I was undergoing the test, and all the efforts I made were deliberate. Of course, I couldn't be recognized by her. Therefore, even if I still love, I can't stop the divorce! 』Z1z

Many people's attitude towards the question of "after a man betrays his marriage, he still loves his wife" is indeed like what Azhong said. Since he has betrayed his marriage, there must be no love.

But I don't think so. A person who loves hot pot suddenly changed to Western food. I can't say that he doesn't like hot pot anymore. Although marriage is not the same as hot pot, the principle is the same. Men betray their marriage and they still love their wives. However, love in this case loses loyalty and loses a one-to-one ratio. Being recognized as the love needed in marriage, since it can’t be recognized, naturally it’s useless to explain and work hard.

said these words not to excuse those who betrayed the marriage, but to tell everyone: Don't betray the marriage, because once you betray the marriage, it will be very difficult to end, this kind of thing happens, your significant other will stare at this If you don't let things go, even if you still love her, even if you return to your family, you can't change the fact that you betrayed your marriage, nor can you change your impression of a scumbag in her heart.

Actually, after a betrayal occurs in a marriage, even if the couple does not divorce, the marriage is no longer pure marriage as before. There will definitely be rifts between each other. If you continue to live together in this state, you will have lumps in each other's hearts. , Will not feel good. So, on the other hand, don't betray your marriage, otherwise you will find yourself suffering.