I gave her so many things. Why is she still not interested in me? What if I don't talk to her if she doesn't talk to me?
I paid so much, she still refused me, why? has people asking the same questions almost every day. The core of these problems is nothing more than that no matter how much boys give, girls never give.
Spends money on girls, gives girls things, and asks them warmly. Should these behaviors be and must exist? These behaviors of
are not problematic in themselves, but they have to pay attention to a degree and pay too much to make these behaviors problematic.
Actually, feelings are mutual, and what matters is that they can balance each other.
If you compare feelings to a balance, at the beginning, your positions are equal, and no one is more important than others. At this time, girls will look at you with normal eyes.
But as you continue to pay, you will have more and more things on the balance, and if a girl does not pay, then she will not have much on the balance, and the balance will slowly tilt.
At the end you are at the lowest point of the balance, and she is at the highest point. At this time, your identities have changed. Before you know it, she has become the goddess of your heart, and you become the "dog licking" in her eyes ".
girls are not interested in "licking dogs"!
When your emotional relationship is abnormal, it is difficult to return to normal emotional development.
So how do we maintain the balance of emotional balance?
First of all, you have to make a change in your thinking. Many men believe that material is the most important condition for maintaining a relationship, so in the process of getting along with girls, they will choose to use material to maintain a relationship.
such as using money!
likes to use money to solve everything. As long as girls are unhappy, they can buy and buy to make them happy. In fact, this behavior is the same as coaxing children.
There is a characteristic of a child. If someone gives him candy every time he cries, then you will find that the child will cry at every turn, and will have to eat it at every turn. If someone makes him stronger when he is crying, then he will slowly stop crying. The same goes for
. If you spend money on girls to make them happy, girls will spend more and more money and become more and more angry. And girls may not do this because you love you, but because they want to get what they want through anger.
In real life, some boys have this kind of thinking. I am a man, and it is fair to spend money on women. I want to be the prince of girls. Don’t I spoil her?
Life is not a fairy tale, maybe the girl will tell you in the end, we are not suitable, you are a good person, I don't like you!
However, when your thinking changes, you will know that some things can be solved without money and can be solved better.
When we pay for ourselves, we must also guide girls to pay for you. For example, it is normal for a boy to ask a girl to pay for a meal, but after the purchase is over, you can ask the girl to buy you a cold drink or something. Let the girl give, let her also maintain the relationship between you two.
Boys' contribution is to let girls know that I can give for you and I am willing to give for you, but I cannot give for you unconditionally. I am good to you, and you have to be good to me, otherwise I will turn around and leave.
Many boys are accustomed to paying by themselves, but they did not ask girls to pay a little too. This has caused girls to gradually get used to your efforts and take everything for granted.
is like getting used to the rising and falling of the sun every day. If you are not so good to her one day, you will wonder why this is so!
Love is nothing more than humanity, so follow Xiaobai's love class to give you a method!
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