A man wants to gain the sincerity of a woman by using the "halo effect"

"No one is perfect, no gold is pure." If you have to find a perfect one, then everyone in this world should be a bachelor!

But why in the minds of so many people who fall in love, their objects tend to be perfect? It is most appropriate to use this old saying: Beauty is in the eyes of lovers.

Men want to gain the sincerity of women, they must be good at using the "halo effect"! With proper use, you can become the most ideal partner in the other side's mind! What is

halo effect? The

halo effect is also known as the prejudice effect, the aperture effect, etc., which refers to the fact that a particular outstanding characteristic and quality of the other person in the communication and cognition will cover people's correct understanding of the other person's other qualities and characteristics. This illusion phenomenon of

is called the "halo effect" in psychology.

American psychologists H. Kelly, SE Axi and others have confirmed the existence of this effect in the impression formation experiment. It can be said that this is an unconsciously established cognition deeply rooted in the human heart. It will change with changes in the environment, and it is an objective and regular thing.

Since there is such a law in the world, men may wish to use such a law to add some help to themselves and increase the success rate of pursuit when solving their own lifelong events and encountering the opposite sex they like!

This is not a speculation, but a very intelligent and flexible performance. How does

use the halo effect?

Of course, no matter what kind of auxiliary measures are used, they cannot be used mechanically and deliberately. That might be counterproductive and make the other person feel that you behave strangely and pretend to be disgusted.

So how to use the "halo effect" naturally? It's actually very easy.

Young men and women tend to find a love that can be "love at first sight". If you want to see a lifelong life, a person's external image is very important.

Many times, this determines whether two people can really start a relationship. Therefore, in addition to staying at home by yourself, you can be casual, as long as you appear in public places, please remember to clean up and be stylish because you don't know when your fate will suddenly come.

is in the work environment, when participating in activities and gatherings, or formal blind dates, etc.

, however, is inseparable. As long as you are fully prepared, you will not miss any opportunities that may arise.

If you have a clear goal, you must take care of your appearance. On the premise that the other party does not understand your other aspects, a pleasing image is definitely to gain the initial favor and willingness of women The only magic weapon to give you a chance. How does

gain favor in the halo effect?

Of course, the condition of appearance is just the basic condition for the opposite sex to notice your existence and be willing to be friends with you. On top of this, how can you gain the favor and affirmation of the other party in the halo effect?

has to have enough good qualities to attract the other party. If

is able to make the other party be attracted at first sight, but also to find some of your outstanding shining points in the actual contact and communication, so that she continues to have a good impression of you, then you have actually The key to the door that started a relationship is in his hand.

For example: you have excellent grades, your work ability is outstanding, your character is good, you are talented, you sing well, you can play basketball, football, you have outstanding eloquence or organizational skills...

and so on, in short everything All the competitive advantages that can stand out from the crowd and defeat other men must be brought out in time for the opponent, so that your probability of getting favored by the opponent will be greatly increased.

Conclusion:

actually puts it bluntly. The so-called use of the halo effect is to try to leave a good impression on the other person at the first sight of getting acquainted with the opposite sex and get a good start.

Then in subsequent contacts, you will always have a natural layer of aura protection, taking a little bit of opportunity. After

, as long as you try to release your own advantages and show your charms and strengths, women will easily turn good feelings into love, and then they will have a kind of inconvenience to you.The feeling of appreciation and admiration, then the feelings you like are easy to get.

This is much more tricky and labor-saving than the method of blindly relying on blunt pursuit, stalking and chasing behind a woman's ass!

Faced with things like feelings, both men and women must always keep in mind: the essence of choosing a spouse is to choose the best!

All your strengths that are different from other same-sex are your greatest competitiveness.

Only two people have the opportunity to enter into marriage. At that time, the key factor that determines the happiness and success of your marriage is the shortcomings and bottom of the personality of both parties.

If you expose all of these to the other party without reservation at the beginning, you may not even have a chance to start, and the other party will directly veto you, don't believe it!