My boyfriend is not self-motivated and does not work, what should I do?

Q

Banmei, my boyfriend is the same year as me, but a few months younger than me, we met in the game, and then run out, together, because he said he was with me I went to get married, so we lived together.

But now he can't even pay the rent. He still doesn't have a stable job. He always goes for a day or two to solve various problems, and then he doesn't go anymore, and he always tells me that I talk to him.

Every time he quarreled, he told me a lot of truths. He knew that I was going to work the next day, but he still wanted to say, and he kept pulling me up and said, never said to bear it, admit my mistakes, the only time he Say it as if I was wrong.

Is it too easy to get and don’t cherish it, what should I do?

A

If you ask me what to do, then I will tell you to break up.

The reason why I suggest that you break up has nothing to do with his age, it has nothing to do with you being online dating Benxian, it has something to do with his three views and your way of getting along with you. I think the age you fill in is 25+. At this age, you should not be looking for a playful little boy, but a man with a sense of responsibility.

Although your boyfriend said that he was with you for marriage, but after you live together, he doesn't work. Why would you get married if you don't work? What's more, you have to raise children after getting married... The point is that even if you don’t work, he has a small temper, and knows that you are going to work the next day, but he still has to fight you...

不得If you don't cherish it, he is just such a person! If you really like not to score, give him a chance to see if he can change it. If not, such a person is not suitable for you to gamble for a lifetime.

02

Should I take the initiative to confess?

Q

Hello, my sister! I am a freshman, and I have never been in a relationship since I was a child. I met a boy in the third year of high school and happened to be at the same table with me. After getting along for a long time, I felt that he was very fond of him, and we usually talked well in class or online.

Then because he failed to enter the college entrance examination last year, he had no contact for one year. When I was in college, there were also boys chasing me, but I always felt that I didn’t want to fall in love. Then I talked to him about it once in a chat, and his reaction was very excited, saying that I should not just believe the sweet words of boys. Don't be abducted or something, we also agreed to go to dinner after the college entrance examination.

Now that the college entrance examination is over, we will chat together again, because I haven’t stayed at home early on the holiday, so he said he would miss me and so on. I would feel a little frivolous if I said too much. Well, I don't know how he feels to me?

I have a good opinion myself, and I don’t know if I want to take the initiative to confess, I want to ask the girl's opinion! Don’t release the screenshots. People you know are afraid of being seen.

A

Don't take the initiative to confess, wait a while to see if he will come to you to confess, because I see the chat history of the two of you , He also has a good impression of you.

In the case that both sides have a good opinion, the boy should be the one who pierced the window paper, not by you as a girl. You two are now at the most beautiful stage of "ambiguity" before you become male and female friends. At this stage, you are testing and guessing with each other carefully. At this time, you should not be so indifferent when you chat with him.He has a good impression of him. You can respond to him a little bit when he tells you that he misses you, so that after he receives the signal, he will take further initiative towards you.

But if you always ask him to find a little sister, then he will think you are boring to him. If things go on like this, you really have to confess first...

has always been very grateful to the big guys for their company with the sisters. Although

can only communicate with you in text across the screen,

but in fact, every message posted by the sisters will be taken seriously. .

Now,

wants to listen to your stories as friends,

will send you some of my insights,

hope to help everyone!