How to get along with husband and wife is an eternal topic, because this is a problem that almost every adult will face. If the relationship between husband and wife is very good, the family will generally be harmonious, and the children will be very happy. Your loved ones will also be very happy. So it can be said that many couples want to get along with each other, enjoy family harmony, and the happiness of loving couples!
But in real life, two people who clearly love each other, once they step into the palace of marriage and live this life, they inexplicably become under one roof "The most familiar stranger" !
Why is this? Obviously, at the beginning, Shanmeng swears that one will not marry one you will not marry, and the other will not marry the other, why will they drift away when they are really married?
I still remember when the article asked to marry Ma Yili, it was a pair that everyone envied. When I won the award, the article said that the greatest happiness of my life is to marry Ma Yili! Their first child is called Emma, Think about how passionate the love between the two of them was at that time! What a yearning for love!
But when Ma Yili was pregnant with her second child, the article was derailed, and then she apologized to Ma Yili and admitted her mistake! Although Ma Yili forgave him at the time, the two ended up breaking up a few years later!
The relationship problem between two people, in fact, cannot be blamed on one person. People are emotional animals. The husband and wife need to give to each other. If you can’t satisfy each other, maybe they just have the opportunity outside. Will do something wrong! So how can we firmly grasp the other's heart?
Once my friend Meimei said that she had left her husband whom she had loved for many years. The beginning of the matter was just because her husband did not clean up the table!
Meimei said that she is a regular office worker, nine to five in the morning, her husband is a business manager, and her working hours are not the same! Sometimes I prepare my husband’s lunch before I go to work, and when my husband wakes up, he can eat directly . Because my husband often goes to the wine bureau at night, and the stomach is not good, Meimei is very distressed!
Meimei is a very attentive and considerate girl. She takes good care of her family and her husband, but I don’t know when, even if her husband doesn’t go to socializing, he will not go home. I spoke to her, but played games whenever I had time. Meimei could hear other women's voices from time to time!
Meimei protested with her husband. Instead of talking to people on the Internet, you might as well stay with me more! Husband agrees on the surface, but still does his own way! Meimei feels very helpless, so she just keeps doing housework and work, feeling like she has become a robot!
One day, Meimei was wronged at the company and wanted to go home and cry, but when she came home, she saw the dishes scattered on the table, and some food was dry. Glued to the table! But my husband is lying on the sofa playing games and chatting with people very happily! There seems to be no sense of responsibility for this messy home!
Meimei broke down in her heart, had a big quarrel with her husband, and then decisively divorced!
The two people who once loved each other are separated! In fact, her husband later contacted her and proved that she did not cheat, but Meimei said that it has nothing to do with cheating, but I am tired. This home has been maintained by myself. You seem to treat it as a living allowance. s restaurant! hostel!
Meimei is a very stubborn person. Although her husband regrets it, she feels that it is impossible to look back, because she thinks that ex-husband is the one who will only consume her without knowing that she loves her!
In fact, the feelings between husband and wife should be balanced and mutual maintenance! Relying on one party's contribution, one party keeps asking, one day the other party will feel tired!
The two people who are in love are naturally willing to do anything for each other during the passion period, but as they enter the palace of marriage, the two begin to experience the test of time. After this, the relationship between husband and wife needs to be maintained by both parties! It's like these two people are standing on both sides of the seesaw. The two people need to cooperate with each other to "play"!
Therefore, marriage is actually the beginning of a new stage in the relationship between two people. Don’t think that when you get married, everything will be fine. "The truth is revealed". Marriage is more strict with the two people in love. The test! It is best not to rely on each other, but to give and make progress together. Only two people with the same pace can go further!
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