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Title: Married with her husband for 36 years, but lived in different sleeps, and didn’t tell the reason until he died at 102.
Parents Arranged marriages had basically taken shape in the Zhou Dynasty, and this kind of arranged marriages were still popular in the Republic of China. Because it is a marriage designated by the parents, all some marriages are doomed to fail from the beginning.
Su Xuelin is a talented woman in the Republic of China. She and Lu Xun have a wonderful relationship. When Lu Xun was alive, she often praised Lu Xun's articles as a "student"; but after Lu Xun's death, she scolded Lu Xun's articles again, saying that his writing was sour and mean. The change in her attitude towards Lu Xun's articles made people feel very incomprehensible. And her marriage is even more strange than the change in attitude towards Lu Xun.
Su Xuelin has been arrogant to bind her feet since she was a child. She didn't bind her feet until she was 7 years old when she went to school. She dropped out of school after studying with her brother for two years in a private school. Later, under the persuasion of his father's overseas friends, he went to the local Christian elementary school, and later was admitted to the normal university.
Su Xuelin, a college student, is very popular in school because she can write poetry and paint. After graduating from normal school, she went to France to study. Although Su Linxue had received a foreign education, she still couldn't make her own decision in marriage. Before she was admitted to the normal school, his parents betrothed her to a man who had never met.
This man is called Zhang Baoling. He is a veritable man of science and engineering who has studied at MIT. During their study abroad, the two had written correspondence, and both of them felt that their personalities were inappropriate and wanted to dissolve the marriage contract. When the mother Su in China heard about it, she became very ill with anger. Su Linxue saw that her mother was ill because of the incident, so she never mentioned the dissolution of the marriage contract.
Zhang Baoling didn't have any pursuit of marriage. After hearing that her retiring was fruitless, she began to concentrate on her career. After the two returned to China, they completed the wedding under the witness of both parents. After the marriage, the two people lived together, but the relationship was not very harmonious. Sometimes Zhang Baoling wanted to drink a bowl of soup, but Su Xuelin felt that she was a woman of the new era and was not used to cooking. When Zhang Baoling felt that the moon was round, Su Xuelin would say that there was no circle she had drawn with compasses. In this way, the values of the two do not match, nor do they have any feelings.
After the end of the Anti-Japanese War, Zhang Baoling returned to Shanghai to accompany her parents, and Su Xuelin went to Taiwan. The two have not lived together since they separated. The two of them have been married for 36 years, and they have always been only husbands and wives and have not been married.
There are many people persecuted by arranged weddings like Su Xuelin. For example, Lu Xun’s original spouse, Zhu An, although she was married to the writer Lu Xun at the time, she spent her entire life diligent and diligent in taking care of Lu Xun. His mother even took care of Lu Xun’s pregnant students. But even with her selfless contribution, Lu Xun never saw her face to face until his death.
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