Only when people reach old age do they understand that fratricide is the result of the reincarnation of all things.
In this life, everyone hopes to have a happy family relationship, everyone hopes to have a happy life, and brothers can live in harmony and peace.
But in reality, there are still many factors that affect this family relationship. Not only relatives, but even brothers can turn against each other.
Only when we grow old do we understand that it is inevitable for relatives to become enemies. This is usually caused by the following three reasons: family ties are hurt, siblings are not harmonious, and brothers become enemies and no longer receive warm companionship.
1. Partiality creates hatred between brothers
In the education of parents, it is difficult to be equal in a bowl of water.
In other words, it is difficult to ensure that it is fair and just to both children.
If the partiality is serious, the child must be extremely ignorant. At the same time, the child who does not get favoritism will have an unbalanced mentality and long for the love of his parents, but he cannot get the favoritism and love of his parents. At the same time, the less he is valued by his parents, the more jealous he becomes. His elder brother and younger sister, whose skin is favored, are jealous that he can get the love of his parents.
If parents are too partial, it can easily lead to fratricide and harm to each other.
After all, every child longs for the love of his parents, especially equal treatment. Don't always favor boys over girls, don't always favor the youngest one, or always give good things to the one you prefer. Don't always blame the other person for whatever happens. If it goes on for a long time, the person who doesn't get the favored person or the love of his parents will sooner or later burst out with his long-standing anger.
Children who have not been loved for a long time will become psychologically distorted, and will instead give this anger to the favored child, thinking that as long as he is gone, his parents will give love to him.
Fratriculation and disharmony between brothers are largely caused by parental favoritism. You dislike me, and I disdain you. We are both angry at each other, and we dislike each other. How can we be harmonious?
Therefore, parents should treat their children equally and equally, otherwise fratricide will easily occur.
2. Brothers don’t know how to be grateful.
Part of the reason is that brothers are ungrateful, ungrateful, and always stabbing each other in the back. How can such a white-eyed wolf continue to communicate with each other? So they cut off all contact and took revenge.
If brothers and sisters are capable and successful, they should help each other. Don’t care so much between brothers. Since the opponent is at a low point, take action when it's time to take action.
Brothers should help each other and it is reasonable. However, as long as some brothers and sisters depend on you, they will stop working at all and become lazy every day. If they are not grateful for your efforts, they will take it for granted and even ruin your life.
doesn't know how to be grateful, he only knows how to ask. If you don't help him, he will always say something wrong with you and call you a white-eyed wolf. If you help him, but fail to get the desired result, he will hate you even more, and you will fight for your kindness and your hatred.
The aunt's son was once imprisoned in the police station for getting into a fight. Since he was the mastermind, the other party identified him and asked him to apologize and follow the normal procedures. But the aunt's son refused to apologize or admit that he had beaten him. He said that I was the leader of the agency and I didn't care so much.
My uncle works in a certain unit and is very powerful. She originally didn't want to get involved in this matter, but for the sake of her aunt, he still kindly said something nice to the parents and the police at the police station, and tried his best to prevent the child from going to jail.
The final result of the discussion was that as long as the child apologized and paid the medical expenses, the other party would not sue him.
But he still refused to admit his mistake. He said that I was not at fault, so why should I apologize? I don’t want it.
In the end, in desperation, my uncle could only give up the persuasion and let them go through the process on their own. He really couldn't interfere in this matter.
Finally, the child went to prison. He was always angry in prison, resentful that his uncle could not save him, and resentful that he did not fulfill his obligations.
Until now, my uncle will not go home to visit relatives if nothing happens. I will cry when I watch it too much, and I don’t want to go back and listen to my aunt’s complaints and crying.
If you don’t know how to be grateful and give, no matter how much others help you, your siblings will still kill each other.
3. Killing each other because of interests
Siblings will always kill each other because of interests.
Even in a close relationship, people may turn against each other because of interests.
The second brother once had a business partner who was his best friend.
The two parties once set up a street stall together and sold some snacks and snacks. Business is booming every day, and both of them are making good profits. But one day the second brother found that his payment was less, always a lot less. He asked his friends, who told him that I was busy every day, buying groceries and entertaining guests, so I should take more, as I should.
As a result, the two had a big quarrel, and even fought over it, and no one gave in to the other. In the end, they had no choice but to break up. Even though more than ten years have passed, both parties still remember this incident and neither will let the other go. Because of the interest relationship, the relationship was completely broken.
A good sibling relationship is because family is the most important, helping each other and setting off each other, so that the family can be harmonious and grow together.
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