Life is a long road, and taking the first step is the most important. What is the first step in life? It's just being human.
Being a human being is the first step in life, so what is the first step in being a human being? That is to have self-awareness.
Only when a person knows himself and knows his own strengths and weaknesses can he learn from each other's strengths and make himself more perfect. A person who is successful in doing things must have self-awareness; a person who is not self-aware will not be able to put himself on the road to success, no matter how many advantages he has in other aspects.
Chu and Han competed for Liu Bang and Xiang Yu . Liu Bang was far inferior to Xiang Yu in terms of personal ability and family power, but in the end it was Liu Bang who won the world, and Xiang Yu ended up killing himself beside Wujiang . The reason is nothing more than that Liu Bang knew that his abilities were limited, so he could delegate power to other capable people, such as relying on Han Xin for military affairs, relying on Zhang Liang for strategy, and relying on Zhang Liang for logistics. Xiao He was able to use everyone's abilities, but Xiang Yu, although he had a counselor Fan Zeng, often did not adopt his correct opinions. In the end, he was defeated again and again, and was defeated by Liu Bang's tactic of being besieged on all sides, and ended up committing suicide by the Wujiang River.
The primary reason for Liu Bang's success is that he can correctly understand his own shortcomings so that he can bring out the abilities of others.
Therefore, it is important for a successful person to have a clear understanding of himself. Only by having a clear understanding of himself can he be able to exert his maximum energy in the field he is most familiar with.
No one is perfect. No one can be perfect. They all have advantages and disadvantages. It is particularly important to know how to understand your own advantages and disadvantages. A person who cannot clearly understand himself must be a self-righteous person. Such people are rigid and stubborn, difficult to adapt, and unable to assess the situation, thus they miss good opportunities in vain.
Conceited people are more likely to be arrogant, arrogant and self-willed, which invisibly puts shackles on themselves and imprisons their own thoughts. As everyone knows, three stooges are like Zhuge Liang. If you fail to adopt the correct opinions of others, you will ultimately be further and further away from success.
In short, self-knowledge is the first responsibility of being a human being. Only with self-knowledge can a person know his own strengths and weaknesses, prescribe the right medicine, and allow himself to continuously learn, improve himself, and make himself better and better. Therefore, everyone must reflect on themselves regularly and see themselves more clearly, so that every step you take will be more solid.
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