According to CCTV website "China's Better Life Survey" data, for every 100 married women, 19.57 regret it, and for every 100 married men, 6.93 regret it. Why are there more women and fewer men? Because women are relatively emotionally delicate, more sensitive, and less tolerant. Secondly, regrets must also include regrets about the marriage itself. Some people may feel that it is better to be single and free. Does that mean that 80% of women and 93% of men have no regrets? Not necessarily, this should include those that are unclear.
And those so-called unclear things are actually quite complicated, somewhere between no regrets and regrets. If you handle it well, you will not regret it. If you handle it poorly, you will inevitably regret it. It’s hard to explain, but it’s roughly as follows:
can’t be said to be terrible, but it’s still far from what you expect. For example, you prefer someone who is gentle and elegant, but the other person is all-rounded. Although it’s not unacceptable, it’s still a little bit unsatisfactory;
can’t be said to have any big principle issues, but it’s still a small issue. Few, for example, sometimes they are too rough, not so attentive, and not coaxing; or they are always bumpy in character, and have poor tacit understanding;
cannot be said to be incompatible, but sometimes when I think about it, it seems that there are quite a lot of things that are incompatible, such as the other person's little habits, those unsatisfactory things, the lack of humility in words, etc. In the case of
, it may still require both parties to grow together and adjust to the most comfortable state. If it cannot be done, it will never be clear, which is also worrisome.
Finally, you might as well ask yourself, do you regret it? I hope I will never regret it, cherish it, hold your hand, and grow old together with you. If you regret it, it's still too late. Believe in love, cherish yourself, and don't treat yourself badly.
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