html How many 30-year-old adults can still maintain close contact with their junior high school classmates?
Many people say that they rarely keep in touch with their college classmates, let alone their junior high school classmates.
To tell you the truth, I have always maintained more contact with Liu Ya, a boy in my junior high school class than ordinary classmates.
The connection link may be that he still has lingering feelings for me.
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My name is Yang Yan. When I was in the second grade of junior high school, my parents went to another place to do business, so I transferred with them to a junior high school in Hunan.
There, I met my deskmate Liu Ya.
Liu Ya was a gangster in the class at that time. He was often late for class and failed exams. He was the kind of poor student that the teacher disliked the most.
Since I had just arrived in the new class, I didn’t know many things. After becoming my roommate with Liu Ya, I had no choice but to ask him about many things.
At first, Liu Ya ignored me, made fun of me, pulled my pigtails, and even played some pranks on me. Later, something happened that changed his view of me.
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That day, Xiao Wang, a rich classmate in the class, lost his watch. He pointed at Liu Ya angrily and shouted: "It's you, an uneducated wild boy who stole my things and took the watch away." Give it back to me!"
Although Liu Ya is usually a gangster, he still dare not provoke the rich Xiao Wang. After all, Xiao Wang has a strong background: "Brother Wang, did you remember wrongly? I came to school today and I didn't even leave my seat for more than half an hour. How could it be that I took your watch away?"
"You still dare to deny it. My watch is gone and no one else can steal it. You took it. Let me look in your bag!" Xiao Wang identified Liu Ya as the "murderer". At this time, I saw Liu Ya's face red with anger and couldn't help but come to his rescue: "Classmate Wang, I testify that Liu Ya really just came here. He has never been anywhere. Why don't you look for it again?"
Xiao Wang was just about to use force with us, when a phone call interrupted him: "Son, why did you leave the watch worth 100,000 yuan that your mother bought for you at home?"
Since Xiao Wang's phone was very close to us, we all heard the fact that her mother told him that the watch was at home. Xiao Wang "hum" in embarrassment and ran away.
From then on, Liu Ya felt that I was his goddess. Because he has grown so big, no one else regards him as a human being. Everyone thinks of him as a bad boy and a troublemaker. Only I dare to speak for him.
Later, Liu Ya became my follower.
In high school, he came to my school to visit me every now and then. When I went to college, Liu Ya had already entered the society and became a truck driver. No matter which province he goes to, he will bring me specialties.
Our pure friendship lasted until I was 30 years old.
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When I was 30 years old, I fell out of love and broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 5 years. Seeing my pain, Liu Ya came over to drink with me to relieve my boredom.
Maybe I was really drunk that day. Under the influence of alcohol , I did to him what I regret most in my life.
When I woke up the next morning, I saw Liu Ya preparing breakfast for me early and greeting me with greetings. When I heard him say, "I will be responsible for you, will you be my girlfriend?" I actually cried and agreed.
However, I know in my heart that I don't love him. I just know that he is a warm and good friend who can take care of me.
Because Liu Ya has been actively maintaining our relationship, we got along smoothly in the early stage.
I couldn’t get over the pain of lovelorn, so I just used Liu Ya to fill this vacant time.
However, when I introduced Liu Ya to my parents, everything ushered in a new change.
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“I didn’t send you to college to date a coachman.There is no social security, it is not safe, I run long distances every day, and I don’t know when I will die on the road. If you dare to continue dating him, I will kill you! "Ever since my mother heard me tell me about Liu Ya's basic condition, she refused to obey.
My father even refused to talk to me for several months. He either cut off the relationship between father and son or separated from Liu Ya. I had to choose one of the two.
Originally, I only had friendship with Liu Ya, but with the strong opposition from my parents, I had no reason to continue.
I had no choice, this relationship could only end here.
After Liu Ya heard what I said about breaking up. , no longer looked like the second-rate guy he used to be. That was the first time I saw him cry. A tough guy who was willing to bleed without bowing his head cried hoarsely for me.
I don’t know what to say to comfort him. Seeing his sad look, I can only cry with him. I dare not tell him that I have never loved you.
Two months later, I accepted the man introduced by my parents and got married in a hurry.
Maybe for me, it doesn’t matter who I marry, I just don’t want to If I hurt Liu Ya again, I don’t want him to feel sorry for me anymore, and I don’t want him to wait for me anymore.
He has spent too much of his youth for me. Now that we are each 35 years old, let's let go and let us start a new life for each other.
Perhaps, this is the best ending for Liu Ya.
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@everyone Beidiao Life:
I think Yang Yan’s approach is quite right.
After all, for an infatuated man who has been waiting for him for more than 10 years, it is far better to let him go, let him give up, and let him pursue his own happiness than not loving him and draining his passion.
Women can't always enjoy the warmth and affection given by men. When you can't afford it, you might as well give the other person a pleasure early and let the other person have new freedom and pursuit.
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