01 Differences in thinking
Before starting today’s story, I especially want to ask you a question: “What is difference in thinking?”
Baidu Encyclopedia This is the word As explained: "Mainly refers to the difference in thinking between people with abstract thinking, image thinking, concrete thinking type and logical thinking type."
The difference in thinking is reflected in many aspects, and in the world of love, the difference in thinking between lovers often ultimately determines the direction of the relationship.
02 Differences in thinking between couples
Let’s talk about the topic of emotions again. Almost all couples have differences in thinking. This is due to gender. Generally speaking, most boys are decision-making types, while girls are exploratory.
For example, about eating, what do you want to eat today?
Boys’ answer is often that they can eat anything. If you say so, can I cook you a bowl of noodles? His answer is yes, which is a decision, because at this time, he can really eat anything.
On the same topic, let’s do identity switching. What do you want to eat today? The girl said, you can eat anything. My boyfriend replied: I will cook you a bowl of noodles, no. How about making braised pork? Too oily.
What do you want to eat?
will often answer whatever you say will work, but this is just a test. You have to ask her what she eats one by one until she really chooses the one she wants.
Regarding opinions, boys asked, what do I think of this dress?
What boys have to wait for is often a decision, and your opinion is his final answer. And the girl asked, does my dress look good? This is a test. If you say it looks good, she may still try the next one until she is satisfied with the answer in her heart.
Regarding trust, the boy said, I believe you, this is a decision, he may not necessarily have the bottom line, but she decided not to care and really planned to change the story.
The girl said, I believe you, this is a test. If a boy also thinks that a girl's belief is the same as his own, and just goes about his own business without any further explanation, then you may be greeted by a critical attack from her, and those who are slow to react may not be able to find the root cause of the problem.
03 A good relationship will become more and more like each other.
In an unfortunate relationship, what often makes you drift apart is the difference in thinking between lovers.
Happy relationships have one characteristic. The lovers become more and more like each other, not only in appearance but also in thinking.
They started to understand the differences in thinking, and then they became better and better today because of their love for running in, adjusting, complementing each other, and thinking in each other's shoes.
You all seem to have forgotten the single selves you once were, and always put us in your mouth habitually. Love makes you a better version of yourself.
Most of us have differences in thinking. If you cannot learn to integrate and just consider problems from your own perspective, then the differences in thinking will eventually make you drift apart and leave you with regrets in your youth!
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