Netizen: I am from Hunan. I am 30 years old this year. I am an older female doctor. I have not graduated yet but will soon. In 2019, I met a civil servant from Changsha, a 40-year-old man, online, and we have been together. We see each other maybe once a month or two now. Later,

netizen: I am from Hunan. I am 30 years old this year. I am an older female doctor. I have not graduated but will soon. In 2019, I met a civil servant from Changsha, a 40-year-old man, online, and we have been together. We see each other maybe once a month or two now.

Later, he said he wanted to buy a villa, so he borrowed 300,000 in cash from me, which I had saved before I started my Ph.D. Later, he borrowed more than 700,000 yuan from my credit card one after another. The credit card is still with him and he pays interest every month, but it has never been overdue.

In 2019, he wrote me an IOU for 710,000 yuan and said he would pay it back in one year. Haven't paid it back yet.

I don’t want to go to court, call the police, or go to work to find him or anything else just to get the money. I like him very much. I think he has good conditions and a stable job. Is he a better marriage partner?

(PS. I learned later that the heroine’s first degree was a college degree, and she later studied for a doctorate. And when she was a child, her family was poor, so she was given to others for adoption by her parents) # Number One Newcomer#​