When a girl first fell in love, her boyfriend was very considerate to her.
had been together for a year. As time went by, she found that she was the kind of person who liked to get to the bottom of everything, while her boyfriend always liked to deal with things and was not very willing to respond. The two of them had more and more conflicts.
At first, the other party just annoyed her, but later he started to attack her and would hit her directly to shut her up. After
took action, he would sincerely admit his mistake every time, make various promises, and even kneel down to apologize to her, but he would still take action next time.
It happened over and over again, each time getting worse. She felt very tired, and there were more and more scars on her body, and she didn't know what to do.
Speaking of which, there are always all kinds of people in this world, and there are always some people who have a violent personality, like to use violence to solve problems, and will punch and kick the people closest to them.
When you meet this kind of person, you'd better not have any illusions and just leave him as soon as possible.
If we are not together yet, don't continue.
Although it is said that when pursuing someone, most men will behave well and strive for women to choose them and fall in love with them.
However, there will be some people who can't restrain their true nature, and it won't take long for their true colors to be revealed.
Maybe when you are dealing with others, you suddenly lose control of yourself and start moving your hands directly. Maybe when you are interacting with each other, you accidentally irritate him and he hits himself in various ways, or looks like he is going to hit you.
may not be a big deal, it may just be due to some verbal disputes, because the concepts are not so consistent.
Anyway, whether he does this to others, himself, or you because of trivial matters, it actually shows that he is a relatively dangerous existence and his character has some kind of flaw.
If he treats others this way now, he will treat you this way in the future. If he hits himself now, he will hit you later. There are already signs of attacking you now, and in the future, all this will really become an endless reality.
is originally in the investigation stage. I haven’t found him suitable yet. He is just like this, so you don’t need to continue to observe him.
Even if he has good conditions and you are quite satisfied with him in some aspects, this alone is enough for you to screen him out directly. Don't risk your future, harbor some unnecessary fantasies, and pretend that it's nothing at all.
It’s just a romantic relationship, break up immediately.
Basically speaking, when you are in love, it will be the sweetest time for two people, and it will also be the best time for a man to treat a woman.
However, since they have become lovers, they will inevitably spend a lot of time together and some conflicts will occur.
If a man has been in love with you for a while, or even if you have been in love for a while, one day, when you have a conflict, you find that he cannot control his emotions, cannot control his temper at all, and can easily get angry. You must be sensible.
No matter how much tenderness he has given you, you must break up with him immediately.
It's normal to have conflicts, because some men who handle conflicts like this will hit you right now. You can't expect how stable he will be and how much sense of security he can give you in the days to come.
When living with a person, you need to look at his advantages. At the same time, you also need to look at his lowest points, some of his flaws and shortcomings. Whether you can accept them or not will have a bad impact on you.
Obviously, violence should not happen at all. It is also very fatal and will hurt you very much.
You simply can't bear it if you live with someone who hits you casually. You will always be frightened and scared, fearing that the other person will change his attitude and you will suffer again.
If you get married, just choose to end it.
It can be said that he successfully passed the initial examination, and after you fell in love, you also moved towards marriage. It wasn't until you got married and you actually lived together that you discovered that he had such a tendency.
is much more violent than imagined. It will really hit you and make you feel extremely painful and unbelievable.
At that moment, when you are married, you may not be able to bear it, especially when you already have children, you may even think that it is best not to divorce, but to give your children a complete family.
You may have that thought, and you may hesitate for a moment. However, during the time you are thinking about it, if he hits you a second time, then you should no longer have any expectations for him.
Once, you can treat it as an accident. If it happens the second time, stop lying to yourself and stop making excuses for him. He really can't do it.
Hurry up and leave this marriage to give yourself a new start and give your children a brand new environment.
Don't be naive. It seems complete but is full of violence. That is never a good thing for children. If the situation is better, the child will only be mentally tortured. At worst, in addition to the spirit, the child will also have to endure what you have endured.
Home should be a warm place. Since there is no warmth, only embarrassment and fear, it would be better to leave as soon as possible.
At no time should a man touch a woman. How incompetent
must be to use his fists to solve problems and wave his fists at his woman.
After all, that won't solve anything at all, but will only make everything more uncontrollable. Don't think about saving a man like
. What you should save is yourself.
Escape from his clutches as soon as possible, draw a clear line with him, let him live his own life, and you should be responsible for your own future.
Find a man who is more emotionally stable and gentle, who can discuss everything with you, handle conflicts and solve problems well. Be with such a man and have a good time with him.
In this way, you will really feel more at ease and feel more at ease.
text/Tan Meng
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