As we all know, getting married and having children are the two top priorities in life. When you reach the right age, even if you are not in a hurry, your family members and elders will start making arrangements for your children's marriage. However, as times change, young people's views on marriage have changed compared to the older generation. This is especially obvious for girls who grew up in rural areas.
In the past, the concept of marriage was relatively simple. If two families sat together to have a meal, as long as they liked each other, then the marriage would naturally be inseparable. But nowadays, high-priced betrothal gifts and short-sightedness are everywhere, which is why more and more people in their 30s are still unmarried.
Recently, a netizen from rural Zhejiang shared a video through a social account. The video recorded a blind date scene between three sisters in a local farmer's family. After the details were exposed, it instantly became a hot topic on the Internet.
It is easy to see from the clothes of the three sisters that although they were born in rural families, their temperament and appearance are definitely not comparable to ordinary farm girls. Yes, according to informed netizens, the three sisters have actually been working in big cities for many years, and have entered the online live broadcast industry several times. To put it bluntly, they are the most popular Internet celebrities at the moment. After the
video was exposed, many netizens praised the three sisters for their outstanding temperament, but others also criticized it, especially the girl in blue who was sitting at the table eating in the picture. She was wearing a sexy off-shoulder knitted sweater and delicate makeup on her face. She did not look like a "fuel-efficient lamp" at first glance.
Indeed, although freedom in dressing is emphasized in the new era, the occasion must be distinguished in everything, especially when elders in the family are present. Dressing in such a high-profile fashion is indeed a bit too much.
Of course, dressing style is not the hottest topic among netizens. The reason why the three sisters caused controversy lies in their standards for selecting spouses. It is said that on the first day back home, many matchmakers came to visit. After learning that the three sisters were single, they immediately offered to introduce them to a partner. Facing the enthusiastic neighbors and folks, although the three sisters did not refuse, they also expressed their respective requests.
The first is the eldest sister. She said that she is the oldest among the three sisters, so the requirements are set to the lowest. The man only needs to have a car and a house, plus a gift of 300,000 yuan. She even added that this is already the local minimum standard.
As for the second sister and the third sister, on the basis that the eldest sister wanted a house and a car, the bride price was raised to 400,000 and 500,000 respectively. As soon as the news came out, it not only poured cold water on those matchmakers who were interested in introducing the target, but even the parents of the three sisters looked embarrassed.
You must know that due to the impact of the epidemic in the past two years, all walks of life have not had an easy time, not to mention that in rural areas where the livelihood depends on the weather, even a 300,000 yuan gift is already worth the life savings of a middle-income family, not to mention a car and a house. Therefore, these two conditions alone have shut out the vast majority of rural young people.
Of course, rational netizens also expressed different opinions when looking at this matter. They believed that the three sisters had no plans to start a family in the countryside. After all, their parents were young and beautiful, and they had been working in the live broadcast industry for many years. What kind of "big brother" had they not seen? Her vision and temperament have already surpassed most rural girls.
To put it bluntly, the car, house and bride price are just excuses for them to refuse a blind date in their hometown. Even if there is a boy who meets the criteria, I am afraid he will not be favored.
Personal opinion: How to set standards for choosing a spouse is indeed a matter of personal freedom. Everyone has the right to pursue exquisite and comfortable living conditions, but having said that, everything must be based on reality. When they want three to five million, have they ever thought about what they can bring to each other?
As the old saying goes, "marriage is not a transaction." It is obviously unfair to only ask for things without saying a word about what you should pay. Perhaps in recent years, the three Internet celebrity sisters can negotiate terms based on their appearance and temperament. But once the threshold is set too high, when their youth is gone, it may be too late to cry.
Instead of doing this, it is better to calm down, take a good look at yourself, find someone who treats her sincerely, and live a down-to-earth life.
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