I can't stand my husband staying at home and tossing me every day. Although we have only been married for two months, I want to divorce again. I just can't stand a little grievance. I am 33 years old and am on my second marriage, while my husband is 37 and on his first marriage.

I can't stand my husband staying at home and tossing me every day. Although we have only been married for two months, I want to divorce again. I just can't stand a little grievance. I am 33 years old and am on my second marriage, while my husband is 37 and on his first marriage. This husband is not very good-looking, but he is strong and looks energetic, but his personality does not match his appearance. He is introverted and has many thoughts. I have never seen through him, nor can I control him. In the first month of

, he couldn't help but mess with me no matter what time, as long as the conditions allowed, which made me have a bad impression of him. I slowly started to regret it a little, and I gave up. Later, after enduring it for a while, I found more and more problems, and I really wanted to leave. Now that I see him, especially his ferocious appearance, I feel that he is too vulgar, and I am becoming more and more repelled and disliked by him, and I can no longer accept him.

During this period, his company stopped working, and we also stopped working. We were at home every day. He didn't think of any way to make money, so he stayed at home every day, eating and sleeping. He didn't let me go when I wasn't feeling well. I felt like I was masculine. I asked him to sleep in another room with us apart, but he didn't listen. He only cared about his own happiness and didn't care whether I lived or died. He also doesn't know how to wait on others. If I don't want to eat, he won't do anything, and he won't try to make anything for me to eat. Last night, I had such a fever, but he still wanted to do good things. If I had the strength, I would really like to kick him far away. I scolded him and told him that he would divorce me if he dared to touch me, but he didn't dare. I am completely disappointed with him. Really, do I want to leave this person again in this situation?

siege reply:

hello. I don't quite believe what you said. Is there really such a man? No matter how low your emotional intelligence is, it won’t be like this, right? It feels like there are just a few people, and only a single-minded person can behave like this, right? I'm not saying that it's not good for him to be tormenting, but I'm saying that even though you've already become masculine, he still won't let it go, and he's not afraid of becoming masculine too. This behavior is a bit hard to understand, and it feels like his brain is a bit out of whack.

Of course, this is just my judgment. Whether it is really not enough, or what, you will have a judgment. It would not be like this, otherwise it is impossible not to know before marriage, and you will not choose such a person when you remarry, right? If this is true, it means that you actually have a problem with seeing people!

Therefore, my advice to you is to communicate well, reason with him, and slowly let him not only think about himself, but also take care of your emotions. Only when you are happy and you are happy will he be happy and happy. In addition, I also understand his state and mood after being single for so many years, and maybe he will get better after this period of time. After all, there are no other issues of principle. Slowly influence and change him and make him become what you expect. After all, you are already remarried, don't give up easily, marriage needs to be managed, and getting along needs to be adjusted. Try harder, persevere, give it a try.

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